The Not So Secret Secret To Will and Jada's Perfect Union
Rumors have been swirling for years that Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith are swingers, so I guess this comes as no surprise to some, but Will recently told a British magazine, "I'll tell my wife if I need to have sex with someone else." Each of them, he claims will say: "I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it."
Will says, 'Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people.’
But Will claims he's not sure what he'd do if Jada wanted to take another lover.
‘I don’t know how I’d feel,’ he confesses. ‘But I know I would react better than if I found out about it afterwards.’
‘I don’t know how I’d feel,’ he confesses. ‘But I know I would react better than if I found out about it afterwards.’
posted by That Bitch! at 12:16 PM
137 Comments:
Oh my gosh am I fizzirst?
now..eww Will I cant beleieve you sleep with other people.. (notice he never said "..have sex with another WOMAN" Ima tll my mama, she will now be impressed, she really liked you Willard.. smdh
WTF, she hasn't gotten hers yet?
ok, ok, 2 mistakes..1)tell* and 2)not*
Guess honesty is the key and if all parties agree then so be it, better to agree and go for the ride than get left wondering what happened . The STD risk is the part I cannot conceive.
These two are sexy and all and I think they have a positive "productive IMAGE" but some thing about them turns me off not sure what it is
Dayum. I would most definitly let Will get it. Im not a lsbian so i dont know about Jada. bt I feel sorry for her sh loves him very much and she doesnt want to be touched or loved by anyone else her heart is trapped. She wont ever leave him she loves him to much. But i is smart of her to be there while its going down and that they have to agree before it happens
if it were me id be he most difficlut cuz erry time a nigga asked the answer would be " I said hell naw!!!!
Why folks always gotta put their bidness on blast like that? Especially foul bidness like that.
The good news is won't be any tell alls, everybody agrees this is what the deal is can't help but respect it. So if anyone comes home with the OWee there are not surprised just because its J & W dont make them exempt from the dangers that go along with this type of openess. People put them on a pedestal and what the hell are you married for if you "need to be with "other" people? Not a fan he might need to stop running his mouth soon like his good buddy Tom.
Everytime he got a movie out that needs a buzz he start talking about they sex life they are like every other bearded couple in Hollywood she like P*ssy he likes it up the arse fine it works and everyone is paid! STFU and eat a fat one.
Jada ,don't strike me as being that week. I thought she was stronger than that, I couldn't do that shit I will divorce his ass and take everything I could, and that's just me
dont believe it !!!
what british magazine so i can read the article? jada doesnt look like she goes for that shyt, check out the red carpet interview when they asked about his co-star in hancock.......oh and i thought swingers were couples who had sex together?
I ain't mad at em. Do your thing Will. What women need to understand is that(most) men have a VERY easy time separating sex from love. Having sex with the same woman for 50 years..DAMN. That's why I am not interested in marriage.It is a slippery slope, but if you have a down ass woman like Jada, it will make your life grada(greater)
Girl I told you posting Oprah was bound to generate responses.
As for these two, yawn. He's a DL cornball and she's a closeted lesbian with a short-man's complex.
Kills me when it's Will Smith this BS is ok what is the difference between them and the couple from ATL (supposedly Tiny & Tip) that be freakin off with strippers doesn't make it right or acceptable because WS says he do it and Little Jada goes for the ride what is the difference in her and a gold digga? Not hating just asking what the difference is ? they bashed the couple from last week but now its all good. Shit is nasty and if Will didnt want anyone's comments he wouldnt of put it out there. Tired of the double standards
ok so he gets to sex other women and she is not! yeah she is weak! its nasty and what the hell are those kids learning about marriage and manogamy!
they could have kept this to them selfs, the state of marriage in the world is already in enough distress!
Will just say you are not man enough to be faithful!
don't believe it!
come to think about it everytime he got something out he talks about how much sex they be having and all over the place. at this point they should be explaining that Scientology based school they opening up of course he cant admit that it would kill is career as people would start to view him like that looney tuney Tom
Not true! This has been reported for years yet no one can prove it and they always deny it. Besides, it is Will that is sprung. Jada would get crazy paid if she left him. Who really thinks she would put up with this mess!
Jada need to let me fuck, and Will need to give her consent to fuck me.
I can't disagree with @c-style at all...
I was married very briefly and it was ONE of the worst decisions I've ever made... And YES it was more to do with the person I chose to marry than anything else
The BEST Education is the ONE that you Pay-For ;-)
LMAO @ Jada's short man complex...
Will need to keep it quiet! If that's what y'all are doin', then fine.. consenting adults and all.
I find that when actors/actresses get into the rarified air - $20million per picture and above, they not only believe the hype, they start feeling invincible!
I really think if Will don't behave/take a grounding trip back to philly and catch his damn self he's going to get his wake up (n**ga) call - ala OJ/Michael Jackson/Mike Vick etc
NO NEWS here people ,, this has been a known fact
Uhm, total F*ckery if Puffy were to say some crap like this people would be all over his ass they dogged him for admitting marriage would not be best for him cuz one woman will not do and the crowd went wild on him, now box office hit Willard Smith says I just tell my wifeI'm fucking and the crowd goes wild for that? All while dogging Shaunie saying she should leave her bread and butter Shaq and go make it on her own cuz hes a ho and will always be one! What is it gonna be? Guess it all depends on what chick you want to see at the side of the road trying to make it because lets face it if Jada wasn't putting up with all Wills shit who would be thinking about her ? No one she wouldnt be in Africa at Mandelas birthday party or no where else maybe Carol's daughter for her beautiful hair but that's it no one would pay to see her and her "rock band" none of that if she wasn't turning her back and letting her DL husband do his thing. Only thing is they not in denial about it to each other and that is .. well what it is
jada seems like she can be a lesbian, i'm sure she got hers. How else is she going to last with will, all them hollywood hoe's just waiting.
This is old as the day is long....next!
i didn't know will was a dogg, why would he want to do that to his wife.
alot of people keep commenting on why is Jada taking this or she should leave him. For what just to get with the next dude who will probably do the same thing? I think it is a beautiful thing that they are open & honest with each other. The divorce rate would be a lot lower if more couples followed in their footsteps instead pretend not to be attracted to other people, its just not realistic. If it works for them thats great.
Katie Kidd
Halile, you said that Jada does not look like she goes for that shhhh. Guess what? You will never know what people do behind closed doors.
I am sorry, but I knew that Jada was bi-sexual. Swinging couples are more likely to stay married than non-swingers. That is not my opinion, there was a nation wide focus group on that topic.
If a man and woman love to spice up their relationship with another woman, there is nothing wrong with that. As long as all parties are safe and clean.
People may say, "I will never do that!" or "That is nasty!" You may feel that way but how sure are you that you are not being cheated on? Your wo(man) may be cheating on you with multiple partners and having sex raw!
If a couple has an erotic trio, they are keeping it real with each other, they do not have secrets and
that is 100% better than cheating behind your s/o's back.
It is not for everyone! Do not do it just to please your man. It has to be mutual. You have to want it just as much as he does.
I agree with Will and Jada on this one!
that is a shame how a wife has to let her man have sex with others in order to say i am still Mrs. so and so. why get married?? oh i know it just to say "I"S married now" if you want to sex others don't get married. i know jada has to have gotten some from someone because i hear she likes women.that is some sick shit.we are really in the days of sodom and gormorrah.
"I'll tell my wife if I need to have sex with someone else."
note he didnt say "another woman"
cant nobody tell me will doesn't like other dudes
"I'll tell my wife if I need to have sex with someone else."
note he didnt say "another woman"
cant nobody tell me will doesn't like other dudes
YOU people that are saying "why get married then" or "I wouldn't put up with that" or "being with one person for life" SHIT...
Please QUIT-Acting-Brand-New...
IT'S Just Plain PATHETIC !!!!!
You Women who are saying these things, If you are now married... How MANY dicks did you have before you got married? And if you've been divorced since, How many dicks you've had since then?
My point IS if you are that RARE Individual that happens to be married for say 20+ years and only had that-Man's dick for your entire married life THEN I commend you for your RESTRAINT because as sexual-beings THAT isn't a normal-thing to do OR a normal form of human-behavior... And personally I doubt very seriously if THAT-Type of female exist... BECAUSE I DAMN SURE KNOW that there isn't a male individual like that in existence !!!
Yes Ladies if you've been married to a man for over 3+ years HE has fucked someone else... JUST Hope for your-sake that it was in fact Another-Female ;-)
JADA NEVA LOOKED GOOD TO ME
TO SKINY
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When it's time for me to get married I hope my wife will be so understanding lol. If she asks me for the same freedom I guess it will time to call Raul Felder(or maybe a regular esq since I'm broke).
Yes Ladies if you've been married to a man for over 3+ years HE has fucked someone else... JUST Hope for your-sake that it was in fact Another-Female ;-)
*falls out absolutely dead*
sad thing is..this statement is ESPECIALLY true in our black community. *sigh*
Jada had an affair with Flavor Flave! Everyone knows that!!
"Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people."
Very true Will. An interview that Jada gave to sister to sister magazine a few years ago pretty much said the same thing in a coded way.
Ladies when you marry a wealthy and powerful man who is the largest entainer in the world, the liklyhood of him steping out on you is so astronomical. If you are the jealous type, it's best to not get married to a "Will".
Eddie Murphy must be blowing up his phone to invite him to a party.
last year he supposedly said some wild things in a mag in europe and they had to retract. unless will came on television and said this himself. don't believe it!! will is sharp as a tack he is not the type to slip in an interview
Well the only thing better then pussy is NEW pussy. For those who have to fuck everything around you, I think it's best to leave marriage to the serious or atleast wait until your 50.
When Jada was in A Different World, my girl was in a group trying to get a deal. Anyway, she met a whole lot of celebs and went to parties. She said that back then Jada was a hoe and fuck dudes and girls. She said she fucked famous musicians, actors, and behind-the-scenes types too. I never believed it until now. Now I see why she would be down for Will fucking other peeps.
AND PUUUHHHLEEEAAASEEEE...If he thinks that she aint fucking other people he is a dumbass...
ONe day jada is going to get tired of that shit, and they will be in divorce court. the part that got me is he said he don't think he can handle jada sleeping with someone else, what a stupid statement. I guess that's what shaq thought. No wonder marriages don't last, men start believing this shit.
Just because you invite another woman into your bedroom does not mean that you are doing it just to keep your man. To many, it is a turn on!
It is very stimulating, erotic and mind-blowing.
Yeah, them swinging is ok, just more put off by his "people" comment. Thats highly suspect.
4.53
OKAY..
to each is own, but what do you do when your husband is over the other women house that you brought into the bedroom more then his own. do you say something, how can you, you gave him the okay. Also, there's so much disease going on. i like to believe i am more then enough for my man.
So all this basically boils down to believe what we seen on the Red Carpet with him nuzzling all over YT. All that "Will and I fell in love from day 1 shit is real huh. Well if his little bitty man boy wife likes and accepts it- cool"
Aids,STD,Herpes is real for the rest of us common folks please don't believe all that glitters is gold.
I HADA EX THAT BROUGHT HER OLD GIRLFRIEND ONE TIME BUT SHE LOOKED BETTA SO I WAS BANGIN HER MORE THAN MY EX AND ENDED UP HANGIN OUT WIT THA NEW GURL THAS HOW THE EX BECAME A EX.
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@elove, you are a very SAD individual. Please take your bitter ass somewhere else. You seem weak to me. Please do not toss your negativity around, not ALL men and women cheat. For you to say that if you've been married for three years, then the man has cheated shows you have no education and only have YOUR OWN experiences to go off of. I cannot stand when women accept these gender roles. You are an idiot. To say that all men cheat or that men cannot/will not be faithful just sells you short. Sad for you, luckily I have more common sense than that. Ladies and Gentlemen, when in a marriage or exclusive relationship, it is important to LISTEN and COMMUNICATE. Your partner will tell you exactly what they need and want from you and it is up to you to provide that, once your other is taken care of, you don't have to worry about all of that extra crap (lying, cheating) as long as you had the common sense to choose the mate who respects you.
If we truly seek after the heart of GOD, and get back to the basics in life instead marrying and hooking up for all the wrong reasons surely, a long lasting healthy relationship without all the bells and whistles of 3 and 4 in one bedroom and all the other garbage is possble.
For years everybody was on Bill Cosby's d*ck, Americas #1 dad, him and Camille this and that black, positive la, la, la his herepes infested #ss how many women sued him for drugging them and people had a hard time believing Mr Puddin Pop could do such a thing he is still with his wife but she cant be happy about that sh^t! Cookie may have stuck with Magic but can't be happy he exposed her to HIV, If these men where Pookie and JOJo and them niggas would these women have stayed?
Will and Jada have changed over the years. All that scientology and believing their stuff don't stink--I love him as an actor, but...I think that's what bothers you anon 1:05. They have become almost souless.
As for the open marriage: this is very old news. They have come out on TV and in print saying pretty much the same thing several times over hte past 10 years. Jada likes other women (and men) and I'm beginning to believe Will likes dudes too, especially if Tom Cruise is a close personal "friend".
Wow, I can't believe so many of you think all men and women cheat. I've NEVER in all my years cheated on anyone. TO ME: when you cheat on someone that means you don't love them, now hear me out. It's impossible to cheat on a person you love, why; because your feelings become involved. What I mean by that is how would your mates feel knowing you've cheated. If you love someone you care not just about them but their feelings as well.
When you're in a situation and fidelity comes into play the first thing that SHOULD come to mind is your mate. If you still go along with it then that means you don't love them as you thought you did.
Now as for this swingers thing, Hmmmm; I've never done it and know for a fact I never could. I'm to selfish to share my man with anyone. I don't knock the hustle but it's not my cup of tea, besides I prefer coffee.....
I DONT KNOW...LOL TELL ME IF I'M TRIPPIN BUT...AM I THE OLY ONE WHO THINKS WILL IS A FUCKIN FOO? WHO THE HELL WOULD TELL THEIR WIFE...I WANNA FUCK ANOTHER WOMAN??? AND THEIR GIRL IS SUPPOSED TO BE LIKE "OKAY BABY JUST MAKE SURE U STRAP UP" WITH A BIG ASS GRIN ON HER FACE? I'M ONLY 19 BUT I'M VERY OLD-FASHIONED IN A WAY..THAT'S JUST A BIG ASS NO NO. WTF??! LOL
no one answered the question about what the difference is between them and the freaks in Atlanta ? so you got to be in movies to get a pass to fuck around on your wife? i guess there is a method to to getting people so strung out and drunk off their own fantasies that in the end they are so far gone they cant turn to anyone else. Whoever that was in ATL with the strippers there is nothing the next man or woman can come along and do to top that. Where the hell else is WS gonna find another bird that he can take to the white house, hood, tell her he is going to fuck and then give an interview about it and its all good at this point they probably dont even fuck no more both all the way gay unless hes promoting something or its some high profile event you dont see them together. They on some real El Ron,Tom Cruise bullshit in a minute they will be under cover Kabblalists hanging with Madonna wearing red strings
5:23, I respect what you are saying. People that are close to me ask me that all of the time. If you and your partner have a mutual understanding, there are no problems.
What happened with my friend Blunt Blazer is that he had woman A and B. B was better so that was his new jump off. He is a man so I can not be mad at him.
In my relationship, my s/o NEVER asked or forced me to indulge in a three-some. I did it on my own will! I surprised him for his b-day.
The regulars out here already know the story so I will go into specific details.
As far as being safe, the girl at my request got a std screening and HIV test before we had our erotic fiesta. I showed her our results to as well. We get tested twice a year.
I have no regrets what so ever. I went through a lot to make sure that I had the right person. She was std free, clean sexy and open-minded.
I never cheated on him with a man nor woman. I know that it may be hard to understand but I respect your opinion.
If you are safe, mature and sexually free spirited, this is one hellava experience.
Yes Ladies if you've been married to a man for over 3+ years HE has fucked someone else... JUST Hope for your-sake that it was in fact Another-Female ;-)
See this ^^^ got me shook. you could of at least said 70-80 or 95% % or put some type of numbers on it. I hate to believe that all or every single last man on earth cheats.
Jada admitted to sleeping around a lot before she married will. She said it in an interview she gave to Essence some time in 06 or 07.
I think the average person would find it difficult to understand just how many women throw themselves at you when you are at Will's level of fame. It is virtually impossible to resist women of this quantity, and these aren't ugly hood-rats either, these are beautiful women.
I don't think all men cheat, but males and females are wired differently. I'm going to assume everyone here is not retarded and therefore believes in evolution (which doesn't necessarily mean you can't believe in God too; I do).
Due to men having external genitalia, the only way they can really improve their reproductive opportunities is to be with a large number of partners. They never really know if their child is really theirs. This is the whole basis of males sleeping around. Females, with internal genitalia, do not gain any kind of reproductive advantage from sleeping around. They focus on quality; sleeping with the men who give them their greatest chance at raising successful offspring. Rich, powerful men, for example. If a women cheats, maybe she sleeps with a good-looking guy, looking to get pregnant by him, but stays with and marries the rich man, who will permit her child the best opportunities in life. She does not generally just fuck anything that walks.
There is always going to be an onus on women to compensate for her man's uncontrollable desire to be with other women. The women who have faithful men don't have better ones, they're better for those men. They're doing something differently.
I know plenty of guys who don't cheat, and most of them can't keep a woman anyway...they're "nice" guys who bore the females they're with. Keeping a woman just jealous enough often works wonders...
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5:38pm
Speaking Ill of me and my character-n-education because my opinion doesn't jive with your is Totally LUDICROUS
You can believe Whatever-the-Fuck you want to believe... THAT fact alone doesn't make you right or correct about what you believe. And you trying to Get-Ignorant about my comment doesn't make Me wrong.
And as far as YOUR common sense goes WHY don't you Try-using-it sometime this century... We're talking Reality here not Fiction
You know "fiction" is like make-believe and "non-fiction"... oh wait that's right I'm SAD and have No Education so just forget about what I just stated
And YOUR the smartest and most enlightened person ever and I'll go back to my SAD-n-Miserable existence of being the Biggest-Loser on the planet
And IF You believe that SHIT I've got some Outstanding Beach-front property for sale in Alaska if you're interested ;-)
i guess i am one of the naive ones who think that marriages should be monagamous. why exactly are people taking the vows to forsake all others, if they really mean forsake all others til i get bored with yo ass?
and i definitely don't understand stand a REAL woman letting her man sleep with anyone. i am not a jealous female by any stretch of the imagination, but i am selfish when it comes to my man. if my man is dumb enough to step out on and get caught, you best believe that he should stay wit her ass because he is not my man anymore.
men get all high and mighty that sex is just sex and that it is not personal. but let a man get cheated on...i bet his ego will be f'd up. he ain't forgiving her for that mess.
Quesha, I am a real woman. I am no less of a woman because I do this once in a blue moon. I will never do this just to please my man. I love it and I refuse to post anonymously making bold statements. You see me and this is my life.
I am not evil, I just like to have a little fun once in a while, sue me!
It is not a big deal!
CG, i was not posting that towards u....u like it, i love it. i don't think ur evil. i don't even know u. i am just not down for it. i just think that MARRIAGE is a sacred bond. girlfriend/boyfriend, dating, whateva have different rules.
i am not a sexual prude or anything like that, but I could not bring another woman into my bed.
u know as well as i do that some women do this kind of thing to keep a man. that is the reason why i put emphasis on real woman. because i think that a real woman doesn't have to let her man sleep around or bring another into their life in order to keep him. i say, and this is my opinion only, u need another woman to get ur rocks off, stay yo ass ova there.
i know some people may cheat. i may over-estimate my sex skills. but i definitely know myself well enuf to know what i am gonna take. i will not knowingly bring another woman into nothing. we can watch a damn porno or something to get some other kinda visual stimulation.
I am scared to show my face on this blog. I use to say that a woman had to be desperate to do something like this but I changed my mind. I did it with my husband and I enjoyed it. I was so worried about what other people thought of me and what if he left me for the other person. I know that our love is love and the sex is sex. It is fun and if you think that your sweetie pie is keeping it real with you think again. If he is not comfortable with you he will lie and sleep with the next one on a low. We do not half to creep because we are up front with each other. CG I would have been against you calling you desperate bitches last year but I am with you baby girl. You say what you feel and feel what you say.
Naw Quesha, you are a Christian you ain't no sexual prude.
God is truly coming back and I never thought in my ___ years of living on earth it would be to another creation of Rome. I ain't no prude neither and done my dirt to come to the realization that the're are limits and STDs for a reason.
Quesha, I understand where you are coming from and I respect you as a woman. I do not expect everyone to agree with me. This is a debatable topic. if you disagree with me, I will still respect your comments.
What happened to your profile?
Please reread what you just typed, you make it seem as if the only way to keep your "man" faithfull is to bring another woman into your home. Hun I hate to tell ya but if that's the only way I can keep a man then fuck him....
Not all men cheat nor do they want to, so for some of you to say they do when you don't know all men is asinine. Please speak for yourselves and not others when it comes to this matter.....
CG, my profile is still there. i just changed my pic.
and i think that rational people can disagree and be respectful.
@quesha said...
i just think that MARRIAGE is a sacred bond.
Apparently the VAST MAJORITY of people that do in fact get-married Obviously doesn't share that same opinion regarding marriage... Check the Divorce-rate since 1980
I'm just stating a fact and I'm definitely not trying to sway-your-opinion of marriage... That's your-opinion and I always encourage people to stick to what YOU know to be true-n-right for You because no one else can live Your-life for you... Your Life Is Your Own ;-)
@caribbean... Ain't a DAMN-THING wrong with you baby (Nothing-At-All)
Eric B 4 President, I did not say that all men cheat. These days, woman cheat just as much as the men do. I know woman that cheat on their husband's or boyfriend's. The new thing is woman being with younger men. I can not judge that or say that I am right and they are wrong.
I am not trying to make it seem like the only way to keep a man is to invite another woman into the bedroom. I want you would have read my previous comments very
carefully.
I said that a woman should not do it if she is pressured or forced. I will never do anything like that to keep my man. I treat him like a king and he treats me like a queen.
I love having a little fun once in a while and that is that. No cheating, no lies, no deception and no secrets.
There are some men and woman that do not cheat. Great, I honor you. I am not cheating. I never slept with another man in 4 years. This is an open, mature arrangement between all parties.
You can either love it, hate it and as we all do out here, debate it. Is the glass half empty or half full?
Thank you Elove for your comment and much respect to you Quesha.
Good night!!
All of my married sistah girls cheat and i ain't mad at 'em! No freakin way would we settle for the same damn d1ck for EVER EVER!!!!!!!!!
11:43 PM, by: married in Cali
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Bullsh1t. What's the name of the British magazine? You need more people.
How is it that there can be such acceptance of an "open" marriage, but the first mention of gay marriage and everyone starts talking about how "sacred" marriage is?
Don't get me wrong, I don't judge folk. You can swing, divorce, dl, or even have a sexless marriage. Just don't go gettin' all holy on other folks for wanting in on the game.
11:43 What? That is the truth. I can count all of the ladies that I know and the majority of them cheat on their spouse's. What is fucked up is that their spouse's cheat on them too How in the hell could they act brand new about a couple that swings when they cheat themselves? Now that is how std's spread around. If all 3 people that are doing the damn thing practice safe sex, go ahead and do you. Is it fun or exciting? Do not ask me. I will tell you this much, when I kick it with a man that is mature enough to handle a 3 way call, I am willing to give it a try. Off to work now!
I forgot, erice b 4 president, You really need to stop. You should read C.G'S shit over and over again because she did not say that what so ever. You got so hyped up that you made an assumption and you should man up about it. Who would want your ass for any presidential election when you can not even read a paragraph correctly. Stop acting childish and please stop making up your own stories about other bloggers.
Will Smith a cheater?...No Way
Marriage is sacred. " how can two walk together lest they agree" Everybody need to find someone to walk with that share the same values and goald. Its the lying and deceiving that is not what's up I don't care what no body says it is possible to have one partner and be happy evrybody does not cheat not vouching for anyone but myself. All Im saying is just because Will and Jada doing it doesnt make it right. Ever notice the people with the most clout and money are the ones that seem the soulless? God only knows what they had to do to get where they did.
Hold on...i thought what HE can do SHE can do, what does he mean IF she had somebody else if you freakin other ppl for sure I am...she probably is but just not asking..I wouldn't
Guess him and Charlize got the green light to makeout during the premieres of the movie openings the "family" didn't attend. interesting WS is one couch jump away from going to hell
i don't understand the point of getting married if your going to cheat, marriage is not a hobby. I guess some people just like saying there married.
They are phoney, but I still love hem !?!
They probably son;t swing, they are both too straight for that, LOLs
Bullsh1t. What's the name of the British magazine? You need more people.
12:22 AM
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There's this new thing out called Google.
Ever heard of it?
Why all the arguements about sacred marriage vs open marriage? I thought that the 2 people in a relationship decide what will or will not make or break a reationship/marriage. All relationships have different boundaries and different rules. What may be sacred in one relationship may not work in another. I just think that the folks on this blog need to stop acting holier than thou...
i don't think it holier than thou to feel that it is nasty and disgusting to bring another partner in the marriage. it's also unhealthy for the kids, they are not stupid. But i try not to judge whoever does this, i guess i'm just a little old fashion with my way of thinking. but, thats how my mother and father raised me. i never saw my father with another women and he had 13 of us to raise with my mother.
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CG, my last comment wasn't directed toward you sweetie, my bad I should have said that.
It's for 9:43, no hard feelings...
6:33
You should mind ya damn business if CG didn't feel a need to get upset with the name calling when why the hell would you. Grow the hell up!!!!
11:57 hooked on phonics can work for you. I know that you are not all there. How is that unhealthy for the children? What do you think they would bring another partner home while the children are there?
Your version is unhealthy but what about children who have to suffer from their parents cheating and now mommy is the ex and Ms. so and so is the next. Better yet, do not tell daddy that Mike, Chris and Dave spent a night this week.
I am sorry but do you honestly think that your father had 13 children and never cheated on your mother? You are the fool if you ask me.
You contradict yourself my dear. In one sentence you say that nasty and disgusting. In the second sentence you say that it is unhealthy for the children. In the third sentence, I am not trying to judge whoever does this. Go crawl back under your rock.
According to an aquaintance of mine this is half true.
The aquaintance has a brother who was into those swinger parties hard out in Cali.
Unless Will has had a change of heart over the years, they are both out there like that.
And from what I hear there were no limits, (just gotta be hot) if you get my drift.
12:23 this is a blog express yourself and keep it moving no scholars on here just passing boring work time.
Eric B 4 President, I am not mad at you. I know that we may disagree with this topic but I still have respect for you. I have no hard feelings towards you or anyone else out here.
he said that would tell he, not that he had told her. the entire article was based on a "what if"?
12.33
well dummy if you must know, yes i do think my father had 13 kids with my mother and never cheated on her, just because you never knew your father, or he maybe molested you. don't hate, it's not my fault. and yes you are a nasty disgusting person, it's obvious. my father respected us enough to not let my mother or us feel that he was a hoe, something you know nothing aobut.
the above post is for 12.23. what a loser.
@elove, bitter much? I don't have to do much to prove the quantity AND quality of your intelligence, you do a great job at that. The fact that you mention some beach property in Alaska doesn't mean ANYTHING to me, people who brag typically don't have. That's just how it goes. Now as for your opinion, it is what it is and I could care less about it. The fact of the matter is, you do not have common sense. Your standard of relationships with men is set LOW, when you set your standard low, you get low results. I can understand why a man would cheat on YOU after three years but don't throw your salt and FICTION BASED opinions on the rest of us, you know the other part of the population that happens to respect and love their s/os enough to restrain from what YOU consider the inevitable. YOUR inevitable maybe, but not everyone's. I know PLENTY of men and women who have been in relationships for OVER 5 years and have never stepped out. That does not mean they were not tempted, they did not want to or that they were not close, they simply DID NOT DO IT. Now this is what us civilized people call love and respect. You can accept that a man will cheat on your after 3 years if you want and that is the only type of men you will attract. However, my standard is high, therefore I have a high quality MAN, one who loves and respects me enough NOT to give in to temptation. I do the same. Because I have common sense (something you appear to be lacking from your language, grammar, and overall tone), I would not choose a mate who did not or would not love and respect me anyway. And sense you don't, well I think we know the type of men you will attract
PPSSSTTTT....Everyone...Has it become apparent to anyone besides me that Eric B 4 president might have a bit of a mental disorder? First, I thought she was passionate, but I now have a sneaky suspision that she is in a half-way house and this blog is a part of her re-entry into society. Just between us. I think her PO is a Puerto Rican. Just watch...
ROFLMAO@lovesmesomeluda not getting the beach front property in Alaska comment.
BooBoo listen carefully, elove is saying that you are gullible. He/she was not bragging about having property. Elove was saying that you will fall for anything cause you can't have beach front property in Alaska.
Awe poor baby...
@elove, I didn't come on this site to agree with you, simply state my opinion. You come off as someone who is weak and will say things like all men cheat or all men have kids or something like that in order to accept the sorry men you seem to attract. I do not appreciate that. I am not like that, I am not one of those women and maybe I'm in the minority (which is perfectly fine) but I believe that there are good men out there so will love and respect a woman no matter what and luckily, I was able to find one.
@anon 4:17, I was JOKING you idiot, maybe you should run off with elove to a therapy session, seems like u need it too "boo boo"
i guess if jada thinks she is okay with it, then thats all that matters. I don't see this couple married for to long. this is something that is personal. even if a person does believe they can be in this marriage, you don't tell the world.
Will and Jada can do whatever they want in their marriage.
However it irks me that there are a few people on here talking about what *all* men and *all* women are like. There was one person who gave an evolutionary breakdown. (I agreed with a lot of it. But the analysis was incomplete - it's not just about "being sure the baby is yours" - it's also about the different "costs" of reproducing for men and women. Theoretically this should give men incentive to be more promiscuous.
HOWEVER, even the evolutionary biologists who suggest such theories say that free will overrides everything. I know several men who are completely faithful to their spouses and, no, they're not "boring" men who can't get any other women. LOL. One of them was a virgin until he married, and believe me, he is what most women would consider to be desirable.
It all boils down to individual morality, and that is very much influenced by how you were raised and the values of those that surround you, in addition to whatever choice you make to practice a particular moral code. FREE WILL, PEOPLE. Be a freak, if that's what you like, but don't think because you are, every one is.
Anyone can say what they want and everyone is entitled to their opininon but if I were Jada, I would be laughing all the way to the bank. She's married to Will Smith, the owner of the world's most beautiful body. In my opinion, of course. Gay/Straight/or Sideways they are both beautiful people.
now a days you can't even have a girlfriend, most of them are lesbians. even if they know you don't go that way, they still try. i offically have no girlfriends, every girlfriend i had tried to hit on me, one of them came walking out of a room naked. the other one wanted me to share a man with her after a club, i can go on. I end the friendship with all of them, after cussing them out. i have one girlfriend left and i think she know i might kill her if she trys anything. So i just keep male friends now, which is not easy either. but i can understand where they coming from. this what makes the whole thing so nasty to me. alot of women don't even respect thereself with it.
now a days you can't even have a girlfriend, most of them are lesbians. even if they know you don't go that way, they still try. i offically have no girlfriends, every girlfriend i had tried to hit on me, one of them came walking out of a room naked. the other one wanted me to share a man with her after a club, i can go on. I end the friendship with all of them, after cussing them out. i have one girlfriend left and i think she know i might kill her if she trys anything. So i just keep male friends now, which is not easy either. but i can understand where they coming from. this what makes the whole thing so nasty to me. alot of women don't even respect thereself with it.
@lovesmesomeluda, Yo dumbass wasn't joking. You didn't know what the fuck he/she was talking about. U probably wanted to buy some of that Alaska beach front property.
Choke on a dick slow bitch. Better yet go find yo man cause as dumb as you are I am sure he is fucking your neighbor or one of your family memebers.
12:23 you're a dumbass nasty ho. You know damn well they are probably bringing people home to fck. Even if the kids dont' see the people at the breakfast table they can read dammit! They have eyes and ears. Everyone around them is telling them about their parents' freaky habits. I agree that if they feel like they have to do stuff like this they should keep it to themselves not tell the world. They will live to regret their big assed mouths.
Will was making reference about Jada taking another man as a lover, she has been loving on women for a LOOOOOOONG time. She had been involved with Keenan Ivory Wayans ex-wife in the past for a few years.
2:23 AM- I personally don't care about gay marriage. I say let gay people get married cause it's not my bussiness.
@5:32- Girl sleep with one eye open if you ever spend the night at your one girlfriends house. I had a female friend how woke up in the middle of the night "feeling good" until she realize what was happening.
Arlen I think the average person would find it difficult to understand just how many women throw themselves at you when you are at Will's level of fame. It is virtually impossible to resist women of this quantity, and these aren't ugly hood-rats either, these are beautiful women.
Cosign and they are coming for him 24/7. Some are so disrespectful that they will try to holla in your face.
Quesha said: men get all high and mighty that sex is just sex and that it is not personal. but let a man get cheated on...i bet his ego will be f'd up. he ain't forgiving her for that mess
Girl you ain't lying. but* on maurry and cheaters the chicks start crying and the dude forgives them sometimes. I think I will start using tears to pull the okie doke on men.
6:59 PM
When you are as famous as Will people talk anyway.
The se*x posts always garner a lot of comments here. Too many of us are freaks or obssessed with sex and being pure.
Unconventional ?? Maybe, but the key to any good relationship is communication and honest. If they have negoiated (sp) boundaries within their marriage that leaves the door open for sexual adventures with someone else and both parties agree what's the problem
The problem usually arise from one person "creeping" and the other person finds out about it later.
I AM NOT IMPRESSED BECAUSE... #1) I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 19 YRS AS OF 7/6/08 ~ LYNGBY, DENMARK (NEAR COPENHAVEN),K #2) NOW THEY'RE BUSINESS IS N THE STREETS, 3) NOT A GOOD PLACE FOR THEIR BUSINESS, NOT TO MENTION WITH 3 KIDS AND ALL...
7:38 some people in hollyweird "worship" he who should not be named and that is why they get ahead AND participate in things that are against (God's laws for) marriage. Okay doke people fall for it. Ladies and Gentlement before selecting a partner look at their heart, characther, how they treat people and religious affliations because skins sags, tummys get bigger and pockets can empty during a "trial" period in marriage and what do you have?
4:12
And you love it which is why you keep responding....
6:59, You are wrong my dear because I do not do this around my baby. You can not make any calls about it if you never experienced it.
For example, some believe that your father that you cherish had to step out on your mother of 13. Even if he did, you have your mind set on him being a faithful father to his wife and family.I understand where you are coming from.
I have fun once in a while, I do not bring the erotic trio no where around my baby. I respect myself as a woman and I respect my man. I plan ahead of time to make sure that the woman that I am with is clean and safe. This topic went to the left, right and up side down. We are all here today because our parents had sex.
There are so many fantasies and fetishes out there. To each his/her own.
Thank you, 8:29! Your comment was on point!
safe and clean? nothing safe and Clean about cracking your legs open to 2 and 3 at a time. Condoms don't prevent herpes simply doubles and triples the risk.
To the thrill seekers of the world...
Good luck with that! Love to see the amount of people who are into fucking animals and etc because it is erotic! The devil is a liar tell him to stop using you before you fire crotches end up in hell
7:09, My man and I get tested every six months. I see my primary physician and ob/gyn 2 times annually. He visits his doctor as well. We are a very clean and safe couple. I am very selective. As I said, I ask the woman to get a std screening and a HIV test. I am not going to sleep around with any thing out there. That is not my style!
If you do not like it, do not do it. I said that it is not for everyone!
You never know, someone that you are close to may get down yet they keep it on a dl. Never expect the unexpected.
9:38 you sound slow and passionate.. patient and alluring sorry that you lost your soul and are now a freak and slave only thing that could be worse if you are ugly too. In advance i won't be responding enough of this garbage. Keep the testing up and let us know when you will stop when sh*t come back positive no one can continue to live like that and not get caught out there.
This is for the Anon hating ass bitch 9:57. From a man's eye my girl thinks that I have not cheated. The men that I role with have a main girl and shorty's on the side. You have to respect the game. A man will be a man and my girl reminds me of some of you girls out here. I smashed a couple of times raw. My girl does not know. I can respect C/G for being real with her shit. You are a hater and you are the type of woman that swears up and down that your dick is only yours.(not) How is she i sex slave when she brought it to the table? If my girl was more open minded, I would not cheat. Men like pussy baby girl. We may tell you that you are the only one but that is just game. We may love you and care about you. How many girls out here have been cheated on? Be real about it. You may be a good girl but that it is not good enough. Fuck it I never got tested even with my b/m. How many of you been tested. How is this bitch going to hate on C/G for being cautious and living out her fantasy. Stop hatin' on her. You can give your thoughts without being jealous, ignorant and hood-ratish.
wow... a lot of people care about will and jada's sex life... i just respect the fact that he'd put the question to his wife before making a life (and marriage) altering decision... i tell my wife i'd ask her first, even though i know she'd never approve of anyone... but i would rather she ask me, giving me the oportunity to consider it, than do it and wreck a good thing... and, actually, if she wanted to have sex with someone i approved of, intellectually and morally, i would consider letting her... sex is about trust... and if i trust her and her chosen, why can't i let them grow closer through sex?... anyone read "Stranger in a Strange Land"?... rethink your taboos, and get back to me...
@9:57 AM- Life is funny. The person who sleeps with 100 different people raw may never contract anything. The person who waits for her husband may be the one who gets a death sentence. MOral of this story don't ride CG because you may be the one who gets a disease.
why are we on here pretending jada ain't gettin hers?
Thank you Chic Noir! That is the truth.
4:24 I understand your thought but that person can lose their soul who sleeps with 100 people, but the one who catches if they are doing it for God and make a mistake they have something to fall back on. Yall are young but I remember the virgin chick who caught AIDS from her denist who was not cleaning his instruments along time ago, but she had piece in her heart, she probably went through the stages of denial but finally had peace because she had God at first. The person who is seeking out multple partners are looking for something, looking to be affirmed in someone else's eyes. If you visit TMZ you read stories of porn stars who get something and then people SHUT them out the business because you are not a "bankable" commadity, you were only as good as your last "job." This is about peace in finding that person that God set for you so you won't go searching in the streets. Proverbs 5 15-22
An OLD HEAD
Boo said...
There's this new thing out called Google.
Ever heard of it?
11:09 AM
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Man, you're stupid. This is fake. Go ahead and try to find the source and post it here. Once you've realized that you've been a moron for believing this, please do the world a favor and put a bullet in your head.
Flucking idiots. They're not sleeping with other people: "And Will, 39, reckons he'll tell Jada - and she'll tell him - if they ever feel the need to have sex with others. "
"But Will's not sure what he'd do if one day Jada, 38, confides that she does want to take a lover."
http://www.nowmagazine.co.uk/celebrity-news/265795/will-smith-i-ll-tell-my-wife-if-i-need-to-have-sex-with-someone-else/1/
I guarantee you their marriage will never be the same if either of them ever do decide to sleep with another person. I'm not saying they won't still be "married". It just won't be what it was. And yes, that IS a bad thing. Don't be mad because your marriage is so sh1tty that you need to add other people to it to "spice things up". lol.
Lastly, don't be mindless blind sheep and believe everything you read. INVESTIGATE.
2:04 thanks for your deep theory but things been on and poppin with them and everyone else since Day 1. It's not what "exactly he did say" it's what this glorified HO "MO" didn't say. Great job on the investigation though
@11:30- I hear what you are saying. I just wanted to point out to that anon that sometimes life does not work out according to how we plan things.
What year did that young lady contact HIV from her dentist. I want to read up on it.
Why is it that men {11:18} want a women to be "open-minded" ??
Generally this is one-sided to mean that he will not receive any static when he is f**King around with other women, but it doesn't include her tasting another mans dick once in a while.
Perhaps your girlfriend has been "smashed" by a few dudes without your knowing it. Women cheat also, and we can be far more deceptive. Ask Shaq wife about that.
11:30
Her name was Kimberly Birglis and she DIDN'T catch it from her dentist. The truth came out right before she passed away. The story was he had given it to her since he too had AIDS, but in truth she had unprotected sex and that's how she contracted it.......
Read the article:
http://www.nowmagazine.co.uk/celebrity-news/265795/will-smith-i-ll-tell-my-wife-if-i-need-to-have-sex-with-someone-else/1/
He didn't say that it has happened before. He said if it ever comes that he thinks they would be upfront about it. Get it right. You know Jada don't go for that!
BUT IS WILL FUCKING A MAN OR A WOMAN???? U KNOW THEY SAY HE WAS GAY ONCE UPON TIME!
Thanks Eric B.
Hey Chic Noir here is a wikipedia entry about Kimberly.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kimberly_Bergalis
No things do not work out like we plan. It is said if you want to make God laugh, make a plan.
Discernment prevents experience from being your teacher--someone's mother
People need to be careful out here.
I've lost some respect for them both. When celebrities think they are so loved that they can say or do anything bothers me tremendously...I agree totally with another blogger who commented on what their children are learning and truth be told Jayden seems he will be homosexual and so does Willow-I believe Jada is bisexual but when you start to air that type of laundry you open yourself up to ridicule! In my opinion they do not have a healthy relationship because they are more interested in defying what a traditional marriage stands for which is what we should be teaching and doing for society's sake.
Will and Jada are both bisexual. He married Jada because she was willing to accept it and his first wife didn't. The only reason why it isn't front page news is because they swing with the Atlanta elite, and their partners are definitely "upper crust".
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