Usher On His Mom Not Coming To His Wedding
Usher told Entertainment Weekly, ''My mother made a decision not to come to my wedding because she didn't really agree with my decision. I don't know why. She's never told me and I've never asked her. It hurt me very much not to see her there 'cause I would've liked for her to be there, not to mention that I paid so much money for her to be accommodated and her behind didn't show up. But just as she's made stands, so have I.''
posted by That Bitch! at 10:34 AM
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u need to listen to yo mama, not yo grandmama wife
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R u SHYTTING MEEEEE???? You have got to be kidding! You know why. You know all the reasons why, too. There is no way you can convince me you didn't know why, especially the way your MAN is all up in the media all the time trying to convince us you love him. AND to say you paid to soo soo much for accommodations for yo momma and "her behind didn't show up" just shows me what type of woman you really are Youshera Raymond! You want to talk about the money you spent??!! I can see right thru you. Your man ova there is really stroking that ass. All twisted and confused. Men come and go. You only have one momma.
Who would want to go see your son marry a pregnant while still married, felon, beat up from the feet up slut. On top of that you fired your mother as manager and you have the nerve to throw uphow much money you spend. You ungrateful bastard.
Wild guess here..... But maybe she thinks your decision in marrige was a bad one...
Well well Usher..
Mama knows best now you gotta deal with everything that comes to you!
His mother attending would have meant there were too many bad tempered older women at the wedding.
As far as celebrity wives go Usher caught a bad one. This broad must have a video of him and Big Tigger or something.
Well come on now people he can't fuck his mother when he get's horny but what a way a daughter in-law start a marriage by making the son turn his back on his mother. My friend forced me to watch b.e.t yesterday, they had a marathon of a different world in between commercials they were showing commercials on ushers new show coming up and he really made me wanted to puke when he was gyrating. When he was single it was exciting but now that he's married nobody wants to see that especially me because all I can think of her ugly face he's gyrating on and it was shock, awe and utterly disgusting.
If he'd listened to his mama ya'll be saying how he needs to cut the apron strings. Maybe she's not his mama's choice...but mama doesn't have to sleep w/ her & wake up to her everyday...he does. Mama better wake up before she loses more than she bargained for.
ushers the one who needs to wake up. but u never know...he might like old beat up tranny look a likes.
Mama knows best..especially when ur fuckin up. he's fuckin up big time
his mama messed up by trying to control his life, he married tameka out of spite.......
i think by his mother having such a big problem with tameka, that just pushed him even more to marry her. I do agree with him that sometimes you have't to put your mother to the side, some mothers just don't like no body with there son or somebody thats going to kiss there ass and take there abuse like chili. i think the main reason he married her to show his mother that you are not going to control my life for every. moms don't look innocent either.
I just don't know. I don't think I could ever come between a man and his mother no matter what. It has to be something about her that drove her away. Yeah, there comes a time in a man's life when he has to be a man, but a mother will never lead you wrong or tell you anything wrong. Just makes you wonder......
who spites their mother and not think twice about it? thats just crazy...i know if my mother sees something she is usually trying to put me D on game! thats going to come back to him if it already hasnt!
Who cares if her choice, in your opinion, was not a good one. I think it was in bad taste for his mother not to support him and show. I actually think her behaviour is disgusting. My mother would NEVER do something like that, whether she liked/agreed with my choice or not. Boo to her!
So let me get this straight no one on here has dated or married or been with someone there parents didnt approve of.I hardly believe this is true.This mans mother cant live his life for him he is a grown man, everyone has to learn on their own ( and I get the feeling he will ).As far as this girl being ugly to others or trashy, as some would put it, is not what Usher thinks so lay off the guy will ya.You cant help who you fall in love with. That was his moms right not to show up if she didnt want to she may not agree with it but she still should have been there for her son,because the way it sounds it really hurt him that she wasnt there.Im just keeping it real.
I TRUST MY MOMS ONLY FEMALES SHE'S SEEN WAS MY PROM DATE N MY BABY MAMA AND SHE HATED DA BABY MOMS BUT I AINT LISTEN NOW IM PAYIN FOR IT. MAMAS KNO WUZ UP. I NEVA WOULD THOUGHT THAT NICK CANNON BAGGIN BETTA BROADS DEN USH.
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His mother can be shyste all she wants but she did put him where he is right now to even have a woman look up to him. If her standards are high good for her bad for him.
^^^^I think Johnetta did what she was supposed to do. Why PRETEND you support as disaster in the making when you really don't?
She just didnt want her son getting dicked down by his buff wife. Thats like a pitbull vs a poodle.
I'm sure she'll have a good laugh when the divorce swings around.
sometimes mothers need to step back and let there son be a man and learn from his mistakes. i seen a few situations where the mother was the reason why the relationship ended. but it's not just with the son its with the daughter to. If she would have left usher alone with tameka they probabley wouldn't even be married.
or if she had a real man/husband of her own, she wouldn't really care. mothers are not always right, they do have your best interest but they are not always right. luckily my mothers trys to get along with everybody, as long as he's not abusive.
Give me a break. That's some petty stuff his mother pulled. That's your SON, whether you like her or not! Don't people realize that this type of stuff can destroy a relationship? I have cousins that have not spoken to there parents in DECADES over stuff like this. Is it really worth it?
Thumbs down to his mother
Parent's are always a pain in the ass but they are a pain in the ass for a reason. They been there, done that, seen this, seen that, experience in life is something kids can never pay to learn but learn how to get burnt because they didn't listen.
^^^^ I agree and to some extent I agree with 2:15, however she probably felt she was being put in an uncomfortable situation. And some lessons your children have to learn themselves. My mom used to say to us kids "A bought one is a well taught one."
That's ok... we'll all be right back here... in say, 5 years or LESS. Ush will be agonizing over his bad decision to marry... but you have to live and learn. Momma was just standing up for what SHE KNEW was just dead wrong from the start. If it was my child, I'd make a stand in that situation as well.
lol, one would think it would be that easy. I have a cousin whose mother thought their marriage would never work. She cussed them out and never went to the wedding. 22 years later and 5 kids...they are still married. But guess what, the relationship has permanently been severed. I'm just happy my mother would never make me choose between her and the man I loved. She may not like him, but she would stand by my side because she is my mother. We have to live and learn, and our parents must allow us to do so...not have some trifling tantrum.
Shoot...you would think since he probably supports her financially, she could at least support him emotionally. My opinion...she thought the dollar signs would decrease once he married...saw her early retirment dwindle away. BS
my question is would she stop seeing her man, if usher didn't like him? Mothers that act like usher mother is a trip from the start. I'm not into tameka either, but that is not the way to go about it.
Usher's mother may know a lot of stuff about Tameka we don't know about. But I think her not showing up to the wedding was in poor taste. She could've held her tongue and acted civil for one day.
Why do some of our women hold on to their male children with such a tight grip?
I think it may be because many of them lack husbands and good men at home.
this reminds me of my girlfriend, she's mad because her sons girlfriend is walking around with gold on and she thinks her son is giving it to her. she feels he should be helping her out. LOL.. thank god i'm a good friend. i told her she need to go find a man to buy her some jewelry and get off of her sons tip. the funny part about it the girl brought her own jewelry and her son a bracelet.
HE SHOULD BE WITH CHILI I DONT CARE WHAT NOBODY SAY!!!!!! LOL
Usher is stupid, and Tameka is a stank bitch, she claim she was "working" things out with her husband 2weeks before she and Usher announced their engagement. I mean the baby cute but... I still don't think it's his. Anyways, I don't fault his Momma, she saw what we all see, Tameka is a rotten egg. I would never get between a man, his mother or his money, if anything I will try to bridge the gap if I was truly in love with the man. If his Momma don't like me, yes, I would be hurt but I won't be vengeful, and nothing good can come of it without the mother's blessing. And Usher's stock has gone down anyway. His second single sucks, he hasn't progressed musically, 'In the Club' sounds like it should have been on Confessions, he can't act, his moves are played and to top it all of he lost that sexy swagger. The only interesting thing about him now is his marriage, and I am only interested because it’s a stalled train wreck waiting to happen.
He shouldn't be with none of those industry chicks - keep that. But he shouldn't be with this axe-murderer either!
Dude is a dummy. He shoulda just stayed single and stayed pimpin', stayed happy, and stayed on cool street with momma.
Has anyone noticed that Tameka is a square jaw faced replica of his momma?
^^^ yes I have she looks like a cross between Usher and his mother. It must be a "tribal African" thing. Does Tameka still have a relationship with her daughters I wonder? Or did she ditch them and consider this "starting over." That will answer what her true intentions were.
Usher loves Tameka because she resembles a man and we all know Usher is a little toooo fuckin "metrosexual"...With all the hoopla about DL Brothas nowadays...I'd say Tameka better hope she stands a chance. I agree with 6:23 PM tho...Chili was a better look for him. But his mom had good reasons not to go to the wedding if she didnt support it. She made her stands...so did he. The funny part abt it is: MAMA ALWAYS KNOWS BEST and when Tameka start dragging his ass through the mud, he's going to wish he had listened....
I saw Usher on Good Morning America this morning. I have to respect the man for speaking up and putting the rumors to rest about him and his wife splitting up. He seems happy with his wife and married life. I think its time people start to respect his decision and focus less on his personal life and more on his music.
Always got that ugly wife in front of cameras--when are you going to just shut TFUP and get down to the music? Other artists had husband, wives,family problems but it wasn't the main story in the papers. All the drama is not working like the last time. Chris Brown is the one that all the kids want to see now. Your ass is looking very fugly since your stylist took over.,
You want to be happy the rest of your life make a ugly woman your wife --ain't that how the old song goes?
Good morning!
Usher's mom is still cool with Chili. She can not stand his wifey but she still have his back because he has to learn on his own. He should have treated Chili better but it did not so, oh well. Usher's mom should have his back no matter what.
Off to work now!
Usher should just concentrate on his music more than rumors about his husband and their marriage. I am sure other couples hear rumors too and just let people say what they want. It seems to only add fuel to the fire when those rumors are addressed by the ones involved. Let it go, Ursela. If you and Maneka are happy....then that is truly ALL that matters.
Oh, as for his mother....she will continue to love her son regardless. If I was Maneka, I would make an attempt at Ushay and his mother making amends. She doesn't have to like me, but I could not stand him not speaking with his mother. She has 3 or 4 other sons. How would she feel if some ol broad was coming between them and her. Karma is a bitch. Trust!!
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I am proud of Usher for not being so superficial and actually marrying a woman that he has feelings for. With all of the black men marrying white or latin women and dogging out the sistas, Usher is a shining example of making real people decisions, not industry decisions. He loved Tameka, he wanted to build a family with her and he married her. What is so wrong with that?
It's always M.O.B niggas & niggettes "Moms Ova Bitches"
What's wrong with a person dating or marrying outside of their race? People act like it's one of the 10 commandments or something. Not all black men go lookin outside for love. Woman come after us. My little brother went to a New Year's party and his friend told him that a white woman was looking for a black man and she would take care of him. It's one thing if she enjoyed being around black people and wanted a REAL relationship, but she doesn't care if he has a job. So to black woman and the media it's not just the bros. doing the chasing.
@5.07pm Yup Yup.. think you hit part of the nail on the head right there.
Remember how ragged it got when Usher had to let Jonetta know to back off and just let him be?
She is greatly responsible for his success as his manager, but some mothers just can't let a male child (especially a bread winner) be independent. They're always thinking 'this ho is gettin' my money'. They need to stop that mess. Usher not go'n leave you hung out to dry Jo-Jo!
On the other hand..given the relationship jumping off with the 'pregnant while married situation' She might be on to something there... but at least you should have gone to the wedding!!
Now you DEFINITELY not go'n get an extra helping more than your manager money!
me said...
I am proud of Usher for not being so superficial and actually marrying a woman that he has feelings for. With all of the black men marrying white or latin women and dogging out the sistas, Usher is a shining example of making real people decisions, not industry decisions. He loved Tameka, he wanted to build a family with her and he married her. What is so wrong with that?
11:33 AM
Me, I agree. If he married someone who looked like Beyonce or Cassie these chics would not hate on Tameka so much. I swear sometimes average looking dark skinned black women hate themselves more than anyone else ever could
2:24 You don't go for everything that chases you no matter what the offer is example: Please read the fifty piece that just posted or Kobe's situation. I do beleive that that white chick "chased" him and he "slowed" down.
Haters,leave this man alone and his mom can take heed as well.
This man is grown and he can marry whom ever he likes.Why don't people with something negative to say try getting a life.Geez.
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