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Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Don't Shoot The Messenger

Check it. Denver Nugget Kenyon Martin's wife Heather is a hot topic on the message boards these days, seems a couple of her ex-girls put Miss Heather on blast. Here are the posts that have been making the rounds. Can anyone confirm?

Kenyon Martin's wife Heather got pregnant at the age of 15 and was sent to live with her uncle and aunt in Carson, CA. The neighborhood in Carson that she moved to is called Centerview on the north end of Carson. Centerview is a small, nice, middle class, Black neighborhood. After Heather had her baby (a girl) she met Dewayne Blackman who lived in the same Centerview neighborhood. Dewayne was 18 when they met. Dewayne really liked Heather a lot. When Heather got back into high school Dewayne would help her out how ever he could. He would drive her to school and pick her up. They began dating but Heather's uncle didn't like it and told her she would have to move. Well, Dewayne parents let Heather move in with them in their nice 4 bedroom home. A few years later Heather was pregnant again with Dewayne's first child. They got married and continued to live in Dewayne's parent’s home. Dewayne's parents made pretty good money, they owned oth er property and eventually moved into another home and let Dewayne and Heather continue to live at the Centerview home.A few years later Heather was pregnant with her third child (second by Dewayne) and gave birth to another girl (3 girls total). All of the girls names start with "D". Dewayne took care of his family. He got a good job working at a gas refinery, raised Heather's first child and the 2 by him, bought himself and Heather 2 nice cars and all seemed to be going well. Then the big PROBLEM!!!!!!In middle of 2001, Heather goes out one night and meets Kenyon Martin at a night club. She and Kenyon hook up. Later on Heather finds out that she's pregnant and it may be by Kenyon. Dewayne finds out and all hell breaks loose. He tells her that she needs to get out and she tells him that she will leave. She tells Kenyon what happened and that she needs somewhere to stay. Kenyon's calls his agent who tells Kenyon to put Heather up in a nice apartment and once the bab y comes have a DNA test done. If the baby is yours (Kenyon's) then do what you need to do to support the child. Heather gave birth to her first boy, something Dewayne always wanted. The DNA test proved that Heather’s new baby boy was Kenyon’s. Kenyon did a lot more than support the child, he told Heather that she should move to New Jersey with him and she did. One problem! Heather moved to New Jersey with her new baby boy but left all 3 of her girls with Dewayne and never looked back. Dewayne has raised all three girls since Heather left in 2002 and its now March 2008.One thing that made all this hard was that Dewayne was and still is a big Lakers fan. In 2002 when Heather had Kenyon's child, Kenyon's NBA team, the New Jersey Nets played the Los Angeles Lakers in the NBA finals. Dewayne had to watch the game and view close ups of the NBA cameramen showing Kenyon's big shoulder tattoo of his new baby boy by Heather. It made all of this that much harder.Heathers now h as 6 kids. One daughter by the teenage boy that got her pregnant the first time, 2 daughters by Dewayne, 2 sons and 1 daughter by Kenyon. Heathers oldest daughter graduated from Gardena High School (Gardena, CA.) in June, 2007 and the other two girls by Dewayne are now in the 9th grade and 5th grade. The 5th grader thinks her mother Heather is dead.One of the worst stories that still goes around in Centerview is that Heather also slept with Dewayne's then best friend, Deon. Dewayne and Deon were close buddies and even had a boat that they bought together to take out on the lake and go fishing. After the story got out that was the end of Dewayne and Deon's friendship. If anyone can reach Heather tell her that her daughter miss her.


But wait...there's more:

THIS IS ABOUT KENYON MARTIN'S WIFE HEATHER MARTIN. I JUST WANT EVERYONE IN DENVER TO KNOW SHE IS THE BIGGEST LOOSER AND A SOCIOPATH. SHE WAS MARRIED TO DUANE BLACKMAN HERE IN LOS ANGELES FOR FIVE YEARS AND GAVE BIRTH TO THREE BEAUTIFUL GIRLS. SHE IS A TRAMP. ALL TOGETHER SHE HAS FIVE KIDS. AND IS NOW PREGNANT WITH CHILD NUMBER SIX. SHE CHEATED ON HER FIRST HUSBAND WITH HIS BEST FRIEND HIS BROTHER IN LAWS ROOMATE AND GOT A TRAIN RAN ON HER BY TWO MEN NAMED RUSTY AND K- DOGG. I KNOW HER PERSONALLY I WAS RAISED WITH HER IN INGLEWOOD CALIFORNIA. SHE HANGS OUT AT THE PURPLE MARTINI AND HAS BEEN PLOTTING ON SLEEPING WITH ASHLEI LELIE THE WIDE RECIEVER FOR THE DENVER BRONCOS. I WAS OUT THERE ABOUT TWO WEEKS AGO. SHE IS A TRAMP AND A WHORE SHE GOT PREGNANT WITH KENYON MARTIN SON WHILE SHE WAS STILL MARRIED AND HE GOT MARRIED. SHE CALLED ME AND TOLD ME HE WAS SLEEPING WITH HER WITH OUT A CONDOM AND SHE WAS TRYING TO GET PREGNANT.SO SHE COULD BE RICH. SHE TRIED TO SLEEP WITH HIS FRIEND KEVIN AND HAS TALKED ABOUT HIS DISLIKE OF HIS MOM AND HOW SHE IS A DRUNK HOW HE HAS A STUTTERING PROBLEM SHE HAS RIDICULED HIS SISTER AND HAS INSULTED HIS BEST FRIEND DON BY SAYING KENYON SHOULD NOT HAVE PAID FOR THEIR WEDDING IN THE FIRST PLACE. SHE TURNS HER NOSE UP AT ALL OF HIS FRIENDS AND DON'T CARE ANYTHING ABOUT HER GIRLS SHE LEFT BEHIND. WHEN DUANE WANTED TO GET CHILD SUPPORT FROM HER SHE LAUGHED AND SAID HE WON'T GET ANYTHING FROM HER BUT WHAT SHE USED TO MAKE. IS THAT A MOTHER WHO LOVES HER KIDS?? WHY DOESN'T SHE WANT CUSTODY. AND NONE OF HER FAMILY SPEAKS TO HER BECAUSE SHE RAN FROM THEM. THEY TRIED TO HELP HER ON NUMEROUS OCCASSIONS AND SHE TURNED HER BACK ON THEM ALL.I HAVE HELPED HER MANY TIMES BUT INSTEAD OF CARING ABOUT ME SHE WAS TOO WORRIED ABOUT WHAT MY CHILDS FATHER WAS DOING. SHE IS BURNT OUT TOTALLY AND A LIAR. IT'S JUST TOO BAD THAT KENYON DOESN'T SEE HER FOR WHAT SHE IS WORTH. NOT TO MENTION SHE HAS SAID MANY MANY BAD THINGS TO ME ABOUT HER HUSBANDS ASSISTANT BRAD AND HIS WIFE PAM SHE EVEN WENT AS FAR AS TO COMMENT ON HIM AND THE WAY HE TREATS KENYON. SHE IS TWO FACED AND A BACK STABBER. AND WHEN I DO SEE HER DURING ALL STAR BREAK I AM BRINGING AND GROUP OF PEOPLE WHO ALSO KNOW HER AND KICK HER ASS.


Damn!!!!! Tell 'em why you mad, son.

And don't say nothing about the last part being in all caps, ok? I got an early flight to catch and don't have time to transcribe this bullshit. Happy gossiping.

195 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well it is what it is and we are not to judge people for what they do these people that are putting her on blast sound like they are just jealous of the girl.They more than likely have bigger problems than she does.I say they need to clean there own house before talking about there neighbors.

6:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Man with friends like "the author" who needs enemies - Question is what the hell did she do to you?

6:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow

7:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

She needs to start using protection....

7:21 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

She needs to start using protection....

7:21 AM  
Blogger Caribbean Goddess said...

Dewayne is a very good man for taking care of his two and a baby that was not even his. This happens every day, mother's having children for money. The children get abandoned and abused.

Egg donars have full control of the system and it is sickening. I do not understand how a mother can just leave her children and never look back.

I can see if she left to get herself established and then returned as a nurturing mother.

7:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The last episode of the Wire was the shhhhh! ~60 episodes~ Much love to Omar, Snoop, Prop Joe, Bodie, Ringer Bell, Avon B. and so on. May you R.I.P.! I will miss you!

7:40 AM  
Anonymous tanisha said...

she had to do something to someone for her to be put on blast. I love kenyon martin and I NEVER heard anything like this and I stay on the gossip. homegirl is a whore and I feel bad for her kids. pains me to know end that these hos are allowed to have kids! my house is clean so I can talk. but wasn't kenyon also pictured with trina? so I guess they made for eachother. go dwayne for taking care of his kids and being a stand up man. we need more like him

8:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@Tanisha -

"She had to do something for people to put her on blast..."

Not necessarily. You don't have to have done shit to somebody in order for them to bring on the hate. Some people rant, rave, bitch, and out other mofos just for the hell of it, and the least amount of accidental shit you do to someone, they perceive that as an aggressive move, and then here comes the drama. The second blog entry (the one in CAPS) seems like it was written by someone with a vendetta against ol' girl. It is filled with such hatred and envy and venom. Maybe the person is highly psychotically jealous, as if they feel 'ol girl owes him/her something. The way they outing ol' girl, and putting ALL her business on blast, and talking about whooping her at some public venue... naw, that's hatred right there. If I was 'ol girl, I'd find out which one of these hoes got a real problem with me and mad because I'm getting mine, then it'd be me and her. She better go for what she know...

That's why I keeps to myself and keep people out my business because if you don't, shit like this will EVENTUALLY happen. You can be in your own house, in your own bedroom, and asleep in your own bed, under your own covers and some ignorant mofo will find a way to hate on that and try to act a monkey with you, and that's usually because they aint got shit, aint never had shit, and can't get shit of their own to be satisfied with.

8:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

no, she's a fuckin whore yo

8:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

WOW! Where did you get this from bitch?? Lipstickalley? Those heffa's drop the REAL scooop over there... Regular everday women who know these groupie hoes before their come ups! HAHHAHa! I love it. This bitch gon get her's! Dumb ho! I feel for the man Dwayne and her daughters! WTF!?

9:03 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was alright with the shit until they threatened to beat Heather down. I'm like the other poster; I'd find out who this hater is and come on with it.

9:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

White women been doing this kind of "Heather" shit for centuries, but we got a problem with it now that the sistahs are doing it?

9:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

A typical Black woman!

(just kidding. . .I Love Sistas).

9:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok, what in the hell did Heather do to piss of the author? What killed me was the author had the nerve to say they were a friend.

Excuse me author, yo ass is not a friend to put Heather on blast. No matter how mad you are at her if you were a TRUE FRIEND you would NEVER share you alls secrets were you fall out or not.

9:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Put her up in a nice apartment.... until the baby comes and then have a DNA test done..."

Medical technology is so advanced now that you aint gotta wait for a child's arrival into the world in order to conduct a DNA workup. Doctors can do that shit while the child is still en utero. So, that makes me not believe a good part of the blog writer's accusations and allegations. But if she was so hot behind Miss Heather, why didn't she skip all that writing and just say to Heather: "Bitch, it's on! Me and you. You know what I'm talking about."

I'm sure Heather would have received that calling out somehow, some way...

9:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Have no idea what to make of whoever the hell this story is about but 8:53 I will take into account your are a good person your right about minding your own darn business and people with nothing no hope or future hating on that. i think alot of times it is good to keep your business especially if you have a man to yourself. Or at least find some folk that have some shit so they wont be so busy trying to tear you down.

9:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

9:25 LOL! I hate when bitches rap with each other. Fuck that. Come on with the fight. That's what I'm waiting for. I hope they video the fight and put it on they website.

9:30 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Like Kanye say "let them hoes fight; pull they weave out" or something like that

9:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow what a dirty chick,mainly for turning her back on her own children...It takes a real evil female to do that shit.....even crack heads remember there children,when there not high, so whats this feme fatal excuse.

10:00 AM  
Blogger BronxStateOfMind said...

Damn that pussy gets around; she should never sit on a bar stool cuz it will disappear and her ass will hit the floor.

10:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

But Snitch/Bitch, even you think it's bullshit. You said so at the end of your post... "transcribe the bullshit..."

10:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

the writer is writing like they're so innocent themselves. aint no telling what he/she is doing in his/her own life...

10:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

10:00, why is she (Heather) so 'evil' for turning her back on her kids? Men have been doing it since the dawn of time. Sometimes a woman has to leave her offspring on their own (at least temporarily) while she goes out hunting and gathering - to bring something in for the offspring. The thing is, the mother(s) eventually returns; the father(s) do not. They leave out and never come back... Hmmm...

10:30 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^^^the thing is...SHE STILL HASN'T COME BACK!!!!

It takes a real man to care, love and support another man's seed. It should be a package. Just birthing babies to have a place to lay your head until the next comeup. DAmn. Even wild animals know how to take care of their own!

10:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ANON 9:25a said...
"Put her up in a nice apartment.... until the baby comes and then have a DNA test done..."

Medical technology is so advanced now that you aint gotta wait for a child's arrival into the world in order to conduct a DNA workup. Doctors can do that shit while the child is still en utero.
/////////////////////

You can have the test. But, it still has it's drawbacks. Especially, if you are high risk. Sticking any kind of needle into the membrane (even for amniocentesis) can cause you to micarry. You can actually miscarry if you have a history of risk.

10:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thats so funny, cause all that is true. I know ol girl's sister and back in high school I knew ol girl. And when she got pregnant by Kenyon she up and left her three girls and never looked back. She is a woman who doesn't deserve respect. It's not about hating its about the truth. And the reality of the truth is she should not have EVER neglected any of her childeren for another.

11:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can't believe some of y'all are sayin the chicks who put her on blast hatin...some of you guys use that shyt too loosely...HOW ARE THEY HATIN' ON A BYTCH THAT LEFT HER KIDS BEHIND? some of you make some ignorant azz comments!!!! real talk. if this is true she is a sorry azz excuse for a woman!

**kaliente**

11:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

10:30 so what you sayin is Mamma them raising your kids? Who could co sign or give reason to that? if my girl did that I'd... I'd ..

11:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well another star athlete giving away his money to charity. If he like it .. I love it.

11:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

*sarcasm*

she so fine, he'll put up with anything she does.

11:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well real world God can only Judge us so if the world will allow him to do so!( I just love Haters)

11:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

WOW @ 11:41 SO YOU ARE BASCIALLY CO-SIGNIN to the BS...U should've not left a comment AT ALL...once again where is the hate???? please explain how ppl are hatin on her???? 9 times out of 10 you will not be able to explain how....which would prove me right. So i sit here waiting on you to respond. I would love to hear your take on why we are HATING ...LMAO

**kaliente**

12:00 PM  
Blogger the HustleHER. said...

LMFAO @ BRonxStateofMind and @ 11:29.

I'm with Kaliente. This is some FOUL shit to put her business out there.. but bottomline is, she's a fucked up person anyway!

Don't save her... she don't wanna be saved!

12:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

11:41 thinks we're haters, because she herself is probably this Heather bitch-or just like her.

12:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Damn, bitch you be having the bomb ass stories!!!

Katie Kidd

12:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Damn, bitch you be having the bomb ass stories!!!

Katie Kidd

12:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

damn, for a second i thought christina millian snatched her up a b-baller.

12:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

DAM AN I THOUGHT MY BABY MAMA WAS EVIL THIS BEEEZY IS CRAZY ITS A NEW DAY AND BROADS BE HAVIN THE MAN TO TAKE CARE OF THA KIDS. I HOPE SHE AND MY BABY MAMA GETS MOPPED UP.

WWW.MYSPACE.COM/THAGRINDAHOLIC
NUTHIN BUT KNOCK

12:35 PM  
Blogger Peachiz said...

HOT TOPIC ALERT
I would be the first to say that low life hoe,slut tramp,no good bitch,poor excuse for a mom,then the angel inside is saying that nigga told her to leave but she not taking his kids(i just feel it yeah that's it)

12:41 PM  
Anonymous Everwrite said...

This is all sad because I feel sorry for the husband and those little girls.

12:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Even though the person who put all this on blast is probably jealous, this story is probably true. She probably got tired of watching Heather be trifling and still be able to get nice things and go places, while she's probably trying her damndest to be a good person and nothing is going right in her life, so she's pissed at Heather instead of being pissed at herself and her own circumstances.

1:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well i live in california...south central to be exact. not that far from carson or gardena. I went to crenshaw high but always went up to gardena high because it was a cutie that went there...lol anyways. i graduated c/o 06 and always heard rumors that K. Martin's baby mama daughter went there...but she ain't balling or anything because she doesn't know him or her mother at all. I never seen her but when i read this i was like "omg", this must have some truth in it. this is the juicy store yet BITCH. keep up the good work. =]

1:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

But if y'all are taking sides with the blog writer, then how can y'all say the writer aint hating? The bitch MUST BE hating and jealous if she got all that to say about her friend. Someone who's not hating is someone who's gone on with their own lives and is trying to make a way for themselves, NOT BEING BOTHERED WITH WHAT ANOTHER SKANK IS DOING OR HAS DONE.

And the story may be true, but why she gotta be the one to tell it, and add more shit to it than there really is? That's the definition of a hater; always taking inventory of someone else's shit, but can't produce nothing for themselves. I mean, I gotta whole bunch of bitches I hate on and got beef with, but I'm not sitting up blasting they business like I'm a bad bitch and can't be whooped. Shit, if anything, I living better than most hoes expect me to, and that's revenge enough....

Come on people, that aint nothing but hate in that blog. How many times y'all done said: "Ooh, I sho wanna be with this nigga but I aint got no babysitter...." and then leave them alone to go do whatever? I know I have.

1:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That bitch writing her shit like the girl cheated HER outta something! And then talkin' 'bout she gone bring a group of people to the ALLSTAR (?)to help whup her (Heather)...

I wish a bitch WOULD blog about whupping me. It'd be the last sentence that hoe type and publish. I'm not lying, nor playing and fuck the dumb shit. You can be mad and hate all you want to, but when you talk about whupping me in public or in any venue, you best believe....

1:33 PM  
Blogger STEVEN said...

She will pay for her action carma is a b*tch. THings will come back on her for sure mark my word.

www.crazythingsforlove.com

1:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OOOoooohh,

Yall some hard cyber bitches up in here!!

**sarcasm**

1:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@1:25 -If you have left your kids alone to go be with some dude, then you just as trifling as Heather.

1:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yeah they are Cyber thugging kinda hard plus by the time her and girls make it down to the floor where this chick would be watching her husband play wouldnt the cops be there already.

1:56 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sounds like the person who wrote this cant get nobody to marry or mess with them and this loser is getting wifed all over the place.

1:57 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@ 1:53 - Yes, I have left my kids alone at one point or another. When we got back, they was fed, ahead, and in bed. I had a good time with 'ol boy that night, and this coming June will be our ninth wedding anniversary...

2:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL FORMS OF EVIL IS SELFISHNESS, THAT ME MYSELF AND I ATITUDE....YES ITS A KILLER.

2:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You'll didn't know, anytime a black person calls another black person on their immoral behavior they are hatin', we are sick people

2:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^^^ LMAO
**kaliente**

2:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

when kenyon was in jersey, right after he married heather, the first story made its rounds. people freely talked about how she left her husband and 3 children (didn't know they were all girls) for kenyon because she got pregnant. people also said that she was quite loose (being nice) but that she was friendly and easy to get along with. nearly everyone liked her.

it was also said that kenyon knew what he was getting with her but didn't care because he actually likes her as a person. i translated that to he knows she's a ho and doesn't care. whoever is putting her blast is only doing it with the general public because among the crowd she moves in, everyone already knows her story.

3:05 PM  
Blogger Caribbean Goddess said...

Damn, I know that I am not hating on anyone. I am just being honest about the fact that there are plenty of Heather's that exist in our society today. Some "mother's" are just egg donars.

As I said, if she would have left to get herself established that is one thing. She never returned to get her 3 daughter's from Dewayne and that is deceptive, selfish and cold hearted.

3:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Like I said... I wish a bitch WOULD blog about whupping me. It'd be her last blog post. I'm not even lying.

There is a difference between just telling a story and actually hating. I believed the girl's blog story UNTIL that part where she talkin' 'bout getting some other groupie bitches together to jump on the girl... that's where I lost it. If that aint HATE, then I don't know what is. Then she gotta bring other pepole into her jealous rant. You can blast on a person's business if you want to and everybody giggle and think it's cute, but when you bring talk like that into it... I don't know, it would make me black out and go to cutting...

3:40 PM  
Anonymous eternal-nj said...

PEACHIZ SAID...
"the angel inside is saying that nigga told her to leave but she not taking his kids(i just feel it yeah that's it)"

well, let's say that's true and give her the benefit of the doubt (even though i ain't beat). even if he told her he was keeping the kids, i highly doubt he told her to go and never look back, especially when:

1- he has daughters that would need their mother in their life, especially through the teen years, and

2- the oldest one is not even his biologically, but HERS!

there is no excuse why she bounced on her kids and has had no contact for 6 years. this bitch is a savage. there's no dollar amount in the world and no baller fly enough that could make me leave mine. this bitch is a savage.

3:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Onion toe.

3:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Apparently she must be more than a savage if the blog writer is running hot behind her, with all that 'When I get to the AllStar I'mma whup her" type shit. If she is not all that, like the blog writer wrote her out to be, then why she so mad at the girl? I wouldn't be mad at and waste time on a broad that I think is a bad mother, skank, etc etc. I'd just offer no opinion on her and go on 'bout my business.

If you got time to blog, then you must be hating on a bitch. I don't like that she ran off and left her kids, but I wouldn't rat her business out... can't the blog writer understand that?

3:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Y'all bitches up in here writing like the girl is just some piece of scum. How many of y'all done left your kids alone (even just for a short minute) to get with a nigga that you liked so much and wanted to do everything in the book to keep some other trick from getting him? Including turning your back for a minute on them kids because you knew them kids would be alright until you got back to be with them.

3:57 PM  
Blogger halile said...

at least their is some brothas out there who take care of his kids, watch, listen and learn juve

4:21 PM  
Anonymous eternal-nj said...

^^^^ you a stupid ass bird, anon 3:57. and you know it. that's why you didn't put a name to that shit. if anything can happen to your kids with you in the house if you turn your back for ONE SECOND, imagine what could happen if you leave them to go lay up with some n "just to keep some other trick from getting him"? can you guarantee their safety while you are laying on your back? hell no.

and ain't no dick in the universe worth it. period, the end.

4:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

3:57, I am a mother who would never leave my baby like that. You must have left your baby for the same shit. That is why you agree with Heather's motives. You must think that this is normal. Just because you are a bad parent and will leave for a blunt, the club and worthless sex, do not put us in your catergorgy. You should be ashamed of yourself. This is not okay, it is neglect! 3:57 is a dead beat....disgusting p.o.s!

4:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I skimmed through it, all i can tell is that somebody does not like this girl. I don't know her, so i can't judge her. It sounds like it's probably true, but why would anybody need to care other then her husband. i don't care if this chick made 100 babies by 100 different men, that is still her hoeish ass business.

4:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

anon 3:57...LOL u are such a dumb bytch THE GIRL Left her kids behind, we are not talking about going on a date, or to the grocery store...geesh can u READ? oh and the follwing statement u typed shows ur a dumbazz
"How many of y'all done left your kids alone (even just for a short minute) to get with a nigga that you liked so much and wanted to do everything in the book to keep some other trick from getting him? "

LMAO soundz like u a dyck chaser 2 me. LOL

**Kaliente**

4:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

3:57 thinks that it is alright to leave children in the house alone. Never mind that, (it) thinks that it is just great to leave them for good. 3:57, is it okay to leave a child in a bath tub just for 5 minutes while you go smoke your bull shit ass weed? Wrong! The answer is NO! You should never leave a child in the tub unattended. You are an idiot and I pray that you do not have children for their sake. All of your neighbors and family would call social services on your ass. You should get a membership because they will in/out of your life for good.

4:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^ sounds like the bish has kids...Poor babies! I can't believe they came on here typin that dumb shyt. I sat up here readin his/her comment like wtf???

**kaliente**

4:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You all are a bunch of fucking hypocrites.....Juve is a low life for not attending his daughters funeral(even though you all didn't know why) but this hoe leaves 3 kids and doesn't look back and "only God can judge her".
You people are so fucking lame, I'd like to know how you all decide when someone can be judged and when they shouldn't, fuckin idoits....

5:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

5:03 is most likely 3:57, again making idiotic comments. First of all, Juvenile did not attend his daughter's funeral becasue he did not want to attract media attention so get your facts straight.

Second, if you feel that, "Only God can judge you." Why are you out here? This is a blog spot you idiot. You sure are being judgemental on us(the ones with a brain)

Last, we are given an opportunity to give our opinions on a blog so please go sit your ass down somewhere. If you are so holy, why are on RWS. You should be reading the Bible. You are a fake person.

Silly rabbit tricks are for kids!(lol)

5:32 PM  
Blogger CHIC NOIR said...

The good

This lady is very preety. She has very nice skin, and for having six babies she looks good.
She has a pleasant personality,I think this is what she is using to attract and keep these men.


The BAD
Wow, and some of us wonder why our children hate us. IF THIS STORY IS TRUE, this chic is truly lame. Birth control is truly not the end of the world.

Ladies if you want to keep a man around, don't have a kid. Once a man knocks you up and he has not put a ring on your ringer, he loses respect for you. The liklyhood of him ever puting a ring on your finger decreases with each OW baby you have.

This chic is lucky, she has found two men to wife her. You probably won't be. Do you have her level of beauty(just keeping it real).

I can't imagine leaving my children to fend for themselves. Any dude you do that for will lose respect for you.

Sisters all this talk of fighting is so unlady like and ghetto. Act like a lady(woman) and not like some brute.

5:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

There's a whole lotta hating going on.

I think that this hater/ex gf of KM's wife went to the club with Heather in 2001 and got mad when KM ignored her and paid more attention to Heather. Plus seeing Heather living a luxury life as the wife of a professional basketball playa must be hard on a bitch. That's my theory and I am sticking to it.

6:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Caribbean Goddess,
"donar" = "donor".

6:32 PM  
Anonymous me said...

@6pm what about her children, what about her children.

6:34 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I do not care about the basketball player. The point is that she left her children abandoned. Who cares about rich penis? It is all about the children. I pray that her daughters do not end up like her. Some woman do not think about contractions when they are giving birth. Just the sound of ching-ching$$$!

6:36 PM  
Anonymous T. said...

6:32, did you read every post out here? If so, why are so worried about CG if most people out here use slang, Ebonics or may misspell a word by accident. Wow, you seem very envious. I may use the words sistah, breezy or sho nuff. C'mon I see why you did that. I will tell you that you may fool some but you sure can not fool me.

6:51 PM  
Anonymous Gabriellah said...

Down doggy!! You must have forgotten 2:34 who used "hatin." 4:25 typed, "You a stupid ass..."
4:37 went on with, "readin."
4:33, "all i can tel..." The list goes on. The question is why didn't you correct them, just Caribbean Goddess? You are a hater, that is why. I am not trying to clown anyone out here. I am just making a valid point. Why only point the fingers at one person. You are truly a hater. Now let's get back to the topic if that is okay with hater, 6:32.
I checked it out and I see the reason why....LOL

7:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

lol @ gabriellah ...I SHOLE did...haha

**kaliente** yea we all up in this bish typin ebonics..who cares??? trust boo...there is a time n a place this is a blog nobody cares..hell at least i don't:)

8:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ICE-T NEED TO PUT A LEASH ON Y'ALL HOES. GET LIKE COCO BEEYOTCHES!

8:15 PM  
Anonymous Gabriellah said...

kaliente, that is my point exactly. Why does (it) care so much about CG when almost every blogger is guilty of using slang terms, Ebonics and may mistype a word on accident as T said. Why worry about CG? Why point the finger at her only. I know that I sure use slang and may have a typo. It seems like (it) is just jealous. Just be real (it girl)
8:01, I hope that you acknowledge my point, I was not trying to clown you guys.

9:19 PM  
Blogger Caribbean Goddess said...

This is Caribbean Goddess and I can only laugh at 6:32pm. I made a comment at 7:30 this morning, just before work. On my break, I left another comment. I worked 12 hours today and you want to make a big deal becasue of an a/o? Who are you a representative for Webster's dictionary? I love RWS. Most of the people are real and even though we may have debates about certain topics, only the immature type sh*t like that.

8:01, I agree with you, who cares? You are on me becasue of one letter, please keep it moving.

9:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Now this is some sorry shit...

10:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

5:32
You're the fucking ass, and had your illierate ass read right you wouldn't be wasting my time, ya dumb fuck...
Read it again BITCH "only God can judge her", is in quotations for a reason, read all the comments and see how many people have said that. As for Juvie, everyone called him a low life before he even made the statement of why he didn't attend the funeral so again you're a fucking moron. Now I'm done with you and your silly antics. What's the matter your mama left your ass high and dry too bitch....

12:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

12;42/5:03-You called us all a buch of hypocrites. You are the pot calling the kettle black. I can If only God can judge you why are you judging us. Why? You are are an idiot. Are you in grade school? Who still uses Mama jokes? If you think that we are so called hypocrites, do not come out here anymore. Why would you want to communicate with people like that on a blog? Get a life and grow up silly child.

1:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can't even believe that some folks are defending this sorry ho, who traded in her kids for a dick and some bling. And I personally don't even care if the blogger was jealous or just hating on her.

And as for that dummy talking about "going to cutting", I bet the only thing she's cut lately is a food stamp.

2:09 AM  
Anonymous Renee said...

my lord what is the world coming to honestly. some of yall females simply have no fucking standards. since when is it justifiable for any parent to abandon their children for rich dick and a big house? i don't care if men do it, i don't care if white women do it, i wouldn't give a shit if Martians did it. regardless you can't justify abandoning your seed. it's disgusting regardless who does it.

and folks really need to retire that lame ass term "hatin" yall don't even use the shit in the proper context anymore. nobody (at least not me anyway) is hatin on this broad.

i don't know if this is true or it may not be. but if it is it is dirty and low down as fuck.

the folks who wrote it definitely didn't have good intentions but that doesn't make it any less triflin (if it's true). if she is what they say she is then this is no surprise. besides they say birds of a feather flock together. if she triflin the bitches she roll with probably are too.

2:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@Caribbean Goddess,
You use the word quite frequently when referring to "dead beat moms", each time you spell it wrong. I'm not certain why pointing this out offends you...

3:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

All I have to say is why is the second chick all upset now... she was rolling with ol girl after she abandoned her kids... That would have made me take a step back from her .... you dont shit on kids/family for a man or a woman.

3:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@ gabriellah....u good, lol i didn't take offense:)))))))

Renee said:"hatin" yall don't even use the shit in the proper context anymore

**my point exactly Renee that's what i was trying to understand how we hatin on this girl who left her kids???

And Anon 3:04..you are right...i didn't even think about that. So now I wonder why she is REALLY doing this because like u said SHE knew all of this and she STILL hung with the bytch...i guess she stopped getting the perks..lol BOTH of these chicks are dumb

**kaliente**

8:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Like I said, I WISH a bitch WOULD blog about whupping me. It'd be her last...

Y'all some haters just like the second blog writer. You can put somebody on blast WITHOUT talking about whupping them. And y'all act like Heather shitted on y'all, too. Sitting up in here talkin' 'bout a mother is scum if she leaves her kids, but half of y'all are prolly some grandmothers and grandfathers raising your dead beat, dope fiend daughter/sons kids your damn selves.

Y'all need to get down off your high horses, pull the spurs off, and quit riding Heather's jock and being a hater just like the blog writer. I feel sorry for Heather's so-called friend; it must pain that bitch to no end to see a sistah up in the mansion. Sounds like sour grapes to me. And trust, them kids Heather left behind aint suffering for shit because they have their father to do for them. Him and them kids are prolly better off without her, and if I knew Heather, I'd holla at her and let her know her bitch ass friends are diming her out on the Net and talkin' 'bout whupping her.

As punishment for all this condemnation, a big ass mug of cold, sugary sweet Hatorade for all y'all.

9:01 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

lol! and the ones getting mad at heather for leaving her kids are hypocrites. like they aint never left their kids, too. that's why they mad; cause the lite is being on shone on they ass, too. that's why they can't handle it. cause they guilty of it, too.

9:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

y'all are some wack ass females to be fighting through a damn computer screen, y'all aint gonna ever meet eachother. stop drankin' that haterade and let that beef fade. damn, i thought y'all was in 3rd grade.

9:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^^ Please tell me that was a joke!

**kaliente**

9:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Guilt will sho' make mofos run their mouths

9:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

And me personally i do not think of it as arguing, nobody has threatened anyone. Everyone is voicing their opinions on the situation. think of it as a "ghetto debate"..lol if you can't agree to disagree then feel free to click the exit button. this is just my opinion....I actually think it's funny that some are actually defending her, but to each is own. Wrong is wrong no matter what.

**kaliente**

9:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I sometimes feel that women get away with abandoning their kids more than men. Somebody's gotta fix that. Women can be just as bad or WORSE than men when it comes to NOT being there for children. Its a damn shame. Some women who get caught even get sterilized. But it depends on the state and the judge.

9:22 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

He who is without sin, let them cast the first stone...

But I wonder what bad, ignant, trifling, hoe-ass, bitch-ass, dumb ass shit the second blog writer has done in her life that can put on blast. Surely when she opens her closet doors, she's got a rack of skeletons hiding in the back back there, too. NO bitch is totally innocent.

As mothers, and as parents, we've all done some ignorant shit, something that we're ashamed or should be ashamed of, not really thinking about the consequences, and hope that nobody finds out about and judge or maybe even regret something we've done and wish we could make right again.

I'm sure deep inside her heart Miss Heather is struggling with herself for the contemptious decision(s) she made a long time ago. Don't underestimate a woman's love for her children. She may either love them to death and wish one day to get back with them, or she may - out of love - never be in their lives again because she feels she can offer them nothing. If I had children, I wouldn't want them hoping in me when I know I can't be any good to them.

And it sounds like the blog writer hasn't been in touch with Heather in a good while; so how does she know what Heather is doing. Maybe Heather and the kids' father have worked out something by now that will give Heather some kind of relationship with her kids again...

9:25 AM  
Anonymous D-Nyce said...

3:00; What are you her stalker? Kaliente and others spell shit wrong and use street lango so like Kaliente said this is a blog so who cares. I think that you have a personal with C/G if you ask me. Just answer this question. Why if everyone is guilty of it, you are always the one to give her shit? Just be real with it. Do me a favor by the please put your pic on here. That may explain it all if ya' know what I mean. Yer, I said ya, what are you going to do aboit it.

9:29 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

3 o'clock WTF?
3:04 you are right
9:05 is a mother who would leave her child for dick

9:32 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

3:00 do not call 9-1-1 cause I spelled about wrong. It was a mistake. I did not commit a felony. I seen the problem after I sent the blog.

9:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

From dropping in and out on this particular post the last two days, all I can say is: I'm glad I'm a loner. I don't have no friends (well, except for maybe a few male friends) and whatever I do, or have done, I do by myself and have done by myself. So-called friends like Heather's are exactly the reason why. My male homies don't fuck with my business. We smoke weed and shit together, but them niggas DO NOT get in my personal business and I don't get in theirs. Don't put bitches in your business because they will fuck you up in the end. They hate to see another sistah come up - not even counting the fact that Heather might have given custody of a few children to their fathers. Let's not even count that because I have a suspicion that if Heather HAD NOT run off and left those kids, the blog writers WOULD still have a problem with her. And I'm really not mad at Heather; with them six kids, hell, I'D give some of them away to their fathers, too. Some people talk like Heather left the kids in a shelter or on the street with nowhere to go or in the hands of some child molester. She actually did the best thing she could do for those kids - and that's give them to their father. And men are not stupid; they KNOW how to take care of kids and they what they gotta do.

So, it aint that serious, and maybe somebody get in touch with the blog writers and take the Haterade from them; they done got full off that shit.

10:00 AM  
Anonymous Kiyah said...

This is stupid now. We are talking about a grown ass woman with 6 seeds that were neglected and all you can say is that you used the wrong vowel in a word. Are you serious? You sat up at three in the morning and and that was all that you could come up with. Was this damn girl on your mind like that? She better get a rw/s protective order. Where were you when I forgot a word in a sentence? You were waiting for that C. Goddess chick to come out here. DNYCE you are right about Ms. 3:00 aka 6:32. Kaliente was right too. Who f-king cares. C. Goddess I can not rash at you because what you said was real. I must say that 7 out of 10 people out here have common sense. You guys were right about this situation. For the girls who want to start altercations over the computer, grow up. That was very well put by 9:05.

Wait a minute, 9:05 forgot to skip a line between each other. Please do not let this crazy fuitcake see it, Ms.3:00.(lol twice)

10:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

10:00 AM

Women who hate other females really hate themselves. And I hope you aint got kids, 'cause if you think dipping out on kids and leavin' 'em in another land is cool, you don't know what being a woman is all about-been around too many damn niggas-that's the problem.

10:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@ 9:25 and 10:00 - Excellent points of view. Your individual comments made me think:

1) What if Heather was po' and broke and wasn't living high on the hog with her baller? Would the so-called friends still put her on blast? Or would they be showing her some sympathy? If Heather was po and broke and living on the streets, even after giving her kids to their dad, I'd bet the blog writers' tone would change then. They'd probably be going: "Oh, poor Heather, my dear friend. My girl is homeless and living on the street...."

2). But now that Heather has found her a baller to be with, she's every hoe and skank in the book for giving her kids to their father.

The problem seems to be the fact that Heather has "come up".

10:16 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Someone call child services on 3:57she probably is one of those 23 year olds with 5 kids.

10:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Heather is a sorry ass excuse for a woman. Its plain and simple, she's a dead beat mother who had a crazy life even before she brought kids into the world-and still does. she was a troubled soul who didn't grow out of her evil ways-and is still troubled.

some of y'all bitches in here seem to be blinded by the dollars and her being with a so-called baller. you are ignoring the fact that she is a dead beat and the fact that she did all that evil shit. y'all are probably sorry ass excuses for mothers or had sorry ass mothers, maybe that's why.

10:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

" with them six kids, hell, I'D give some of them away to their fathers, too."

WOW!!!! how sad. Do you have children? If a woman chooses to NOT be on birth control and keep having children, in this case allegedly 6...how can you even say something like that? that was her choice to keep having kids, it is not the kids fault. YES maybe they are better off with their father...that doesn't make what she did right. I swear y'all comments are getting more ignorant by the second...we have got to do better!

**kaliente**

p.s if ONE more person uses the term "hatin" i will scream...LMAO

10:25 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That's why you can't put hoes in your business! I keep telling bitches that. Leave hoes alone because they are jealous, and know damn well that if it hadn't been Heather who gave her kids to their dad, it would've been them doing it, so, hoes don't fool me. They aint concerned one bit about Heather's kids. All of them are mad cause Heather done come up to the mansion and they still down there in the housing projects.

@10:16: you and the two before you are absolutely right! If Heather was broke RIGHT NOW, them bitches would still talk about her and probably WOULDN'T reach out to her. But now she done come up, she sho is about to get dumped on. Either broke or rich (so to speak) they still got a problem with her. You can tell by the hotness in their words; they don't care for her either way.

10:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

10:00 you said that if you had kids you would give them to the father too. You are on the same boat as Heather. You would leave your baby's for fame, dick and a luxurious lifestyle? That is mad grimey. Some woman should not have children. This is going on too much these days. Some sure can pop them out for child support or weLfare but they do not want to take care of their own children. That is sick!!

10:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

snitch should do more blogs on sorry ass mothers, because they are out there and 80 percent of them log-on to rhymeswithsnitch.com. always talkin' about a black man aint being sh*t, some of y'all are just as shitty. if your man aint sh*t, you aint sh*t either!

10:30 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

damn i missed ya 9:05 "lol! and the ones getting mad at heather for leaving her kids are hypocrites. like they aint never left their kids, too. that's why they mad; cause the lite is being on shone on they ass, too. that's why they can't handle it. cause they guilty of it, too."

Yes i have left my son, to go to work, to go to the store, and occasionally when i DO go out to a club, yes mommies need breaks! However she LEFT her kids, geesh y'all are not bright at all! I cannot even SEE how you guys defend this...maybe you guys DON'T have kids, maybe thats why

10:32 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

just 'cause you're a parent doesn't mean you know shit, i'm sure you've heard this before.

10:34 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

child protective services know more than sorry ass parents.

10:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"snitch should do more blogs on sorry ass mothers, because they are out there and 80 percent of them log-on to rhymeswithsnitch.com. always talkin' about a black man aint being sh*t, some of y'all are just as shitty. if your man aint sh*t, you aint sh*t either!"

AMEN, they revealin themselves right?????? talkin bout we hatin NO, any Decent woman will NOTY co-sign to this shyt! I just said the other day yes there are sorry azz baby daddys n there are sorry azz baby mommaz...WHY?!? i think however it is worse when the woman is sorry, however it's bad regardless

**kaliente**

10:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^and why is a mommy going to the club, to get knocked up again?

10:36 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"just 'cause you're a parent doesn't mean you know shit, i'm sure you've heard this before"

I'm guessing this is directed to me, no it doesn't mean anything HOWEVER in the case of this story it does. A person who had NO KIDS comment really doesn't matter to me because they dunno what it's like to love someone more than life itself! point blank I was jus saying i don't understand how ppl are saying this is acceptable, that's all!

**kaliente**

10:39 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

10:32 AM

"just 'cause you're a parent doesn't mean you know shit, i'm sure you've heard this before"

10:41 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kaliente, I love what you say. You type with meaning girl. I loved them yesterday and I love them today.

10:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

LMAO @ 10:36 WOW, I don't sleep around sweetie...SORRY but yes i do go out but i am not a club rat, believe that. My son is taken care of WITHOUT the help of his father...and I am doing a wonderful job so DO NOT try to play me boo! thank you! I work full time and go to school full time and I am doin the damn thing so NEXT and yes i do go out to the club once again, and your point is what???? see, oh okay that's your problem when i mentioned CLUB you assumed I was speaking of the shythole spots you attend, no BOO i only do "grown" clubs which means no fighting and people actually dancing and having a good time.

10:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kaliente: Hate. Hater. Hating. Hatin'. You the biggest hater in here. Makes me think you wish you had given your kids to their dads when you had the chance, but'cha didn't so it's sour grapes for you!

If y'all are hating on Heather for giving her kids to their dad, then maybe y'all should give away some of them kids y'all got cause it looks like single motherhood is starting to break y'all bitches down. (I don't mean "bitches" in a bad way; I mean it lovingly so don't get riled. We going ghetto up in here)

If Heather gave them kids to their dad to keep from dragging them around on the streets with her with nowhere to go, would you hoes be mad STILL? Would y'all be satisfied? Or is the reason for you all's madness the fact that she came up AFTER the dad took custody of them? For some reason y'all think she gave them kids up for the sake of a man. She gave them kids up because she couldn't take care of them. Plain and simple. Getting with a nigga had nothing to do with it. Open your eyes; y'all aint blind, y'all can't see that. If it hadn't been that particular baller nigga, it would've been another nigga none the less. Either way it go, that woman still has to live her life and go on. But I see right now, hoes get MAD AS WET HENS when they think about another woman out there getting hers.

10:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you sweetie, I am not perfect or sin free because i had my son out of wedlock but it just irks me how some ppl can be so ignorant! P.s that is me above also 10:47

**kaliente**

10:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

10:47 am

You crazy as hell, if you were my mama, I'd beat yo ass, and I mean that in LOVING way!! *DOUBLE KISSES*

10:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"Kaliente: Hate. Hater. Hating. Hatin'. You the biggest hater in here. Makes me think you wish you had given your kids to their dads when you had the chance, but'cha didn't so it's sour grapes for you!"

I knew it was bound to happen, someone jumpin all over me...it's whatever, i'm not even going to call you a hater! lol And correction I only have 1 Son, and i love him more than life itself so NO i do not wish i would have given him to his father...what type of mother would i be? NOW i can agree with you that i think ol' girl is jealous of Heather...like i said maybe Heather don't fukk with her n-e-more and she is mad! and now she is putting her on blast, BOTH of them are wrong. And i don't care what anyone here thinks of me, because i know i take care of mine and NOBODY can take that away from me! this is actually the first time i have typed more than one comment...lol I'm just a lttle disturbed by some of the comments that's all sorry if i am irritating you!

**kaliente**

10:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^It sounds like you're a good mother Kaliente, more of a mother than some of these chicken heads up in here. I have ZERO TOLERANCE for chicken heads!! And nothin' wrong with being a single parent AS LONG AS YOU'RE DOING IT RIGHT!!

10:59 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

As a single mother, it's hard to find help these days, from ANYBODY. I haven't been out in six years because my child is severely disabled and I have no one to help me. I don't even have a reliable babysitter. I have no friends, and certainly no dates, because as soon as a man I'm interested in finds out that I am a single mom of a sick kid, them mofos tear they ass with a quickness. They do not want to be bothered with no sick kids that aint theirs. So that means if I'm not getting dates, I'm not getting any dick. Haven't had any good dick in about six or seven years. Some men stick around only to try to use me for they shit, always asking me to buy them shit with my limited income, but never bringing me anything out the goodness of their hearts.

If a man came along with some money in his pocket, a good attitude, and was interested in me and wanted to take me out and treat me nice, HELL FUCKIN'YEAH, I'm going on that date! With or without a babysitter! And if that man wanted to make a life with me, and I needed to give up my child temporarily to his daddy in order for me to go do what I gotta do to make things better for us, then goddamnit, I'm gone do what I gotta do. So, in a strange way, I aint mad at Heather, because raising ONE disabled child has to be the equivalent of raising SIX who are not disabled. And Heather's kids are not stupid - the ones she gave up to their dad. Them babies KNOW their mother love them. It aint like Heather told her kids to kiss her ass because her man is more important than them.

11:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thank you :)10:59 I think i am also! real talk. I take pride in that shyt!My ex(his father) actually left me because i changed after i had him, I became a better, more responsible person and he wasn't a real man(meaning he still wants to run the streets and do whatever he wants) and he couldn't handle it. He is doing him and I'm the one taking care of our son, and I love being a mommy! no front...okay I'll shut up because i'm starting to sound like a "lame-mother" LMAO

11:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

11:02

Well, it sounds like you're doing the right thing by taking care of your child. Your child needs you, and you're doing your job. If a man has a problem with you taking care of your child, then that's his problem, it has nothing to do with you. There are loving men out there who would take you and your child on...but I think you're giving the necessary attention and love to the right person in your life-and that's your child. And yeah, I'm sure there is some GOOD DICK out there, but the question is...IS the man good? For me, a Hello Kitty Dildo beats a man who would use and abuse me LOL. All that drama aint worth that good dick LOL.

11:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

3:57 Are you Heather, one of her groupie friends with a shit load of kids too or some shit...cause there isn't man on the face of this earth that is going to make me leave my child for any motha'*uckn' reason! And for Kenyon are you kidding me...can you spell GROUPIE HOE IS NOW A HOE HOUSEWIFE! ha ha ha ha

11:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I see what the problem is. Y'all aint hating on Heather. That part we got wrong. Y'all some MAN haters! Y'all hating on men. Because why would y'all be mad at a bitch for having ANY man, let alone a rich man? I'd be glad as a mofo for another woman to be getting hers. I'm a woman myself and I know full well that there is NOT one woman on the face of this earth, if she can help it, who will let herself go the rest of her life without a man - either with or without her kids. I think the problem all along has been the fact that Heather has a rich man, because you can't tell me that if Heather's man was broke and raggedy and scraping out the trash barrels y'all would have a problem with Heather and him. But since her man has some dollar bills to spread around, that makes her less deserving?

11:53 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

people are applauding heather bc she gave up her kids bc she "couldn't take care of them"?? but then she had three more kids with KM? so, she couldn't do for her first three kids even with a successful, loyal and dependent husband; but now that she is with a baller, she is in a better situation to raise three other kids? wow. if that's a "come up", then leave me down here.

11:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Did Heather shit on y'all too, just like she did the blog writers, because I can't believe y'all are dumping all over Heather and calling her all kinds of dead beat, skank this, skank that. Like y'all aint never had to some slick shit to maintain...

I heard there's a new drink in town. It's called "Sour Grapes Haterade".

12:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The former husband is prolly in on it - Heather's plan. For all we know, Heather might be sending her kids some of them big dollars from ol' boy the baller. That's how hoes pimp themselves. They marry a rich man and send money back to the kids and the daddies of them kids. My child is severely disabled. You think I wouldn't break my baby off some of this here that this nigga is giving me?

My baby and her daddy are always the first ones to get a piece of whatever I get, cause I know they need it. Don't hate on Heather. Ignore the blog writers. Apparently them hoes aint getting theirs.

12:08 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

So what they, and y'all, are saying is that: Heather don't deserve shit? She don't deserve her kids, she don't deserve a good man, she don't deserve to be living in a nice home/mansion, with a nice man by her side, with money that she can send back to her kids; she don't deserve to breathe and be alive, and she deserve to have child protective services called on her because she did what? Gave her kids to their father(s) instead of handing them off to some stranger/foster home. Aren't the children safe with the father?

So what's the problem with you hoes? I'll tell you...

The fact that Heather's man is rich and y'all feel like y'all deserve him, with y'alls angelic, innocent asses, more than she does.

Get'chall some lives and leave pimping to pimps like Heather.

12:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm gettin' mines. My man pays all my bills, been doing that for 4 years, and we're getting married. y'all need to upgrade yourselves (and your man) if you wanna get like me.

12:23 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ok, i take that back, if you're on heather's side, you're a bad parent.

12:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Y'all need Jesus and parenting classes!!!!!!
Nah forget that, y'all need Jesus and BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!
Any "woman" willing to leave her child for a man doesn't deserve to have a child, PLAIN AND SIMPLE!!!!!

12:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OBAMA SHOULD STERILIZE Y'ALL BLACK ASSES!

1:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Note to Heather: next time, girl, take your kids and give 'em to some child molesters, and foster homes, and put them in some dank dark shelters, okay? Because apparently you being responsible and leaving them with the man who helped create them is a sin, a crime, and will make hoes mad at you.

1:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

some of y'all hoes need to get off the damn internet and feed your kids.

1:15 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

at 1:10- Amen!

Also, I thought I'd ask are you the lady who owns www.hoodooinfluences.blogspot.com?

You sound like the Hostess. If you are not, then you sure sound like it. The way you write. I think you two are the same person. Am I right? I'm sorry if I'm wrong.

1:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

12:00-12:23 Do you really think that it is okay to have baby's and them leave them without turning back. It is know that she has not seen her three daughtre's and knows there is three more. When her motive was to get pregnant by the basket ball player so she can get $$$, that was a poor excuse for a mother.

Why keep having baby's if you do not want to take care of them? Have you considered how the children felt? It is not just Heather, mother's do this every day.

"I am too lazy to work, let me pop one out for child support." I need my income to increase on my welfare, let me get knocked up right quick." I want an extra bedroom so my new man can have a hang out room with his boys so let me have another baby so my voucher can go up."

For those who keep saying that we are haters, you must do the same shit. I can see if you made 1-2mistakes.

6 mistakes? Stop having children for your financial gain and have the man wear a condom. Is that too hard?

1:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^excuse me, i don't have a baby's daddy and i'm taken care of and i'm getting married, we have our own business, he pays all my bills. get like me.

1:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^i'm far from this heather hoe. this heather hoe is the spawn of the devil. i have no love for dead beat mom's. when i become a mom, i will not be like her and all the other heather clones i've met in my life.

1:26 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yeah, my man he pays all my bills and he's not a sports player. those sports players are hoes!! my man is a good black man. he has 3 degrees, i have degrees, we are sexy nerds, get like us.

1:29 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

at 116 yo i thought that ho sounded familiar

1:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I wish I could get my baby's daddy to take him while I go find myself a man, like Heather did. It aint fair that he got somebody and I'm stuck taking care of this kid by myself.

2:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^ You shouldn't feel like you are "stuck takin care of THIS kid" what ever happened to women being independent and not worrying about "getting a man"??? sweetie take care of you and your child, and you will be blessed with somebody...don't go lookin..lol I learned that i do not need a man to complete me, he!! I don't wanna be single for the rest of my life either, but your child should be 1st. Y'all already know who it is....lol

**kaliente**

2:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@10:16 and 10.:27. Fucking for money is actually NOT "coming up." It is called something else where I come from...

@12:19. K-Martin is NOT a "good man." Sleeping with someone else's wife (while she is still married and living with her husband) is NOT the attribute of a good man. He may be rich, but please don't confuse a rich man with a good man.

3:44 PM  
Anonymous Queen of March said...

i bet it is a bunch of lil ass girls on here perp'in like they grown with men......

all these hoes talkin get like me, i have a man he pays my bills...

trick please how bout i don't need a man and i make enough to pay my own bills...once you have that going for yourself then you can tell somebody else to get like you!

What she did, is something that one day she is goign to have to answer to. I don't know her full situation or what she was feeling/ going through so therefore i can't judge her.

But...i can say that if i did something like that my momma woulda whooped my ass real good, grown or not....

3:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Y'all are sad. Really. Trust, that man and them babies AINT hurting for nothing, because I'm sure he done said to Heather:

"Bitch, whatever you get from that nigga you better shoot it on over here. You know I gotta take care of them kids you left behind. I know how that shit go."

Trust, a man is gone get his, especially if he has to take care of some kids as a single dad.

4:11 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I meant to say: "You know how that shit go.." not I...

4:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I said "...nice man..." NOT good man. I never said KM was a good man. Get it right, okay?

4:20 PM  
Blogger CHIC NOIR said...

Why is it that whenever we talk about baby momas and baby daddies and such this site gets hot as heck!

4:51 PM  
Blogger CHIC NOIR said...

1) What if Heather was po' and broke and wasn't living high on the hog with her baller? Would the so-called friends still put her on blast? Or would they be showing her some sympathy? If Heather was po and broke and living on the streets, even after giving her kids to their dad, I'd bet the blog writers' tone would change then. They'd probably be going: "Oh, poor Heather, my dear friend. My girl is homeless and living on the street...."

2). But now that Heather has found her a baller to be with, she's every hoe and skank in the book for giving her kids to their father.

The problem seems to be the fact that Heather has "come up".

10:16 AM

NO the probleme is she left those kids and has not keap in contact with them. If she was down on her luck that would be one think but to straight abandon those kids without so much as a phone call or visits is wrong.

I think that some men make better parents than women. Maybe Heather thought her exhusband is the better parent and thats why she decided to leave her children. That said, SHE SHOULD STILL KEEP IN CONTACT WITH HER KIDS including regular visits and phone calls.

I don't think she should just up and take her children with this baller guy because she needs to protect her daughters because you never know what he could try to do to those girls in the night.

SHE LEFT HER CHILDREN WITH HER EX HUSBAND AND HAS NOT HAD ANY CONTACT WITH THEM. I think that is what got most of us so hot.


Imagine what her daughers must feel like. They are probably wondering what they have done to make their mother not love them anymore.

5:49 PM  
Blogger CHIC NOIR said...

@ the woman with the disabled child. Honey your king with come through. You should try to hook up with at least two of the older ladies who live near you. I sure they won't mind babysiting for you so that you can go out once a month. I understand that you are under a lot of stress but remember your babby comes first.

----------------------------------

Why do so many women have against birth control? Why are so many of our children coming into the world anyhow?

5:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

11:56 am...you are so right (LOL)

Also...it is bad when a mother abandons her kids for any reason! Let alone the sorry excuse of chasing a MAN...one who's probably cheating on you anyway. Where's your self-esteem & confidence? I wouldn't leave my kids for a man. If he couldn't take us ALL, then hell, he couldn't take ME.

Now, if she isn't careful Karma will come back to bite her big time. That man can come & go like the wind, so can that million dollar come-up lifestyle. But her kids, the 3 she left behind will be hers for life. Who's not to say that they won't grow up and be successful one day? Who does she think will be there to wipe her old ASS, if Kenyon is gone on with another younger chick!

Women get so caught up on being motivated to do ANYTHING for MONEY...If you practiced doing good, giving to others, treating yourself to finer things, writing down the things you want and goals you would like to achieve in life...you would attract that MONEY/GOALS to you, but in the right way.

You got to lose that video chicken head, in the club mentality...in order to bring the millions into your life. Expand your horizons, go beyond your comfort zone to get pampered, shop, wine & dine yourself in an expenseive restaurant. Go to Whole Foods Market, dammit! GET a colonic! Anyway, my point is you have to be ready for that man with the millions when you do meet him...if that's what your standards are. But you don't leave your kids for him, just elevate your mindset, and he'll be there, ready to take you & the kids!

It starts with your heart, if that's not right, everything you do is suspect. Her heart is not right if she left her kids for a man. Those same kids will grow up and she's going to regret what she did big time!

Everyone need to watch "The Secret"

6:13 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay, now i've been at work reading all these post for about an hour and i am left speechless..some of yal got sense, and some of yal don't...Now I am not a parent.. (thank God for that..i think im too young for that) but at the same time i am not oblivious to the fact that the actions of Heather are not any that deserve praise!! You guys keep mentioning what if she was broke or poor or on the streets, etc...What focus on the what if's when you can focus on what is..The thing is Heather is not those things...(IF THE STORY IS TRUE)...She has 3 additional kids that she is with and cares for, while her 3 previous kids are wondering where mommy is! She got pregnant by a rich dick left her husband and 3 kids to be with someone else...im still trying to see what is right about that situation...If she was struggling thats one thing...but she's not, so what is her excuse now for not being there? She was young, so im sure some of her actions were based on lack of maturity...but it was her choice to keep birthing kids, and it is her responsibility to be there for all of her kids, not just the ones she birth with a rich man...I'm not hating on her, as you guys would love to say, i just don't understand, and can't comprehend how anybody, not just Heather, could get a pat on her back for being selfish....But i do see a Book in her future

**LyriQ**

7:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^^^ My bad, i meant *why focus on the what ifs, not *what

**LyriQ**

7:48 PM  
OpenID cinnamon0505 said...

here's an idea...

what about not having kids AT ALL (let alone six) until you have the mental/financial/relationship means and capabilities to even be able to take care of yourself?

8:36 PM  
OpenID stuffghettopeoplelike said...

Cinnamon, you make way too much sense. Some of these coons don't know the meaning of stability. I'm over hearing about people of color making poor life decisions.

8:38 PM  
OpenID stuffghettopeoplelike said...

Where ther eis smoke there is fire. I do believe there is some truth to the comments made about Heather. Kenyon is a dumb coon for hooking up with a broad of such low moral character. How is someone going to have a bunch of kids from different fathers and only take care of half of them? As someone stated before some of you black asses need to be sterilized.

8:46 PM  
Anonymous Wild Safari said...

She may have a pleasant personality and be reasonably good looking. Maybe she is even a great lover (6 kids?), but how can any man or anyone for that matter have any respect for a woman who would abandon her husband and children to chase after some other man? Her husband sounds like a good provider who really loved her. Not many guys would take in someone else's babymama off the streets, help her through school, and take care of her child then wife her and raise that child as his own. He sounds like a real stand up guy. She left the good guy to chase after some baller from the club and has absolutely nothing to do with her first three kids! That is completely inexcusable. It also reminds me of Maneka, but that's another story.

10:50 PM  
Anonymous Wild Safari said...

You know what? I just have to comment on some of the other comments on here:

I'm LMAO@people who come on here as anonymous then leave other anonymous comments agreeing with themselves.
@9:01am-9:05am (2X) a.k.a. 10am and 10:27am plus a whole lot of other aliases: Children are a blessing that you seem completely unworthy of at the moment. It sounds like you come from a dysfunctional family and upbringing. I cannot think of any other reason why you think it would be OK to abandon your children or why you talk about children as if they are an unwanted burden you can't wait to be rid of. I truly feel sorry for you. It sounds as if you were unloved as a child. I could be wrong, but that is the impression I got from your comments.

@10:47am #1 I co-sign (#2 sounds like an ignant ass)
@12:19pm, she sounds like "ho" not a "pimp" get it right.
@1:16pm shouldn't the name of that site be "hoodinfluences"? That's what her posts sound like. Hood influences.

@11:02am with the disabled son: check with your state or county social services unit. You may qualify for free or low-cost assistance, schooling for him, maybe a nurse to come in, support group, etc. Where I live we have a free state run school for severely mentally and physically disabled chilren. They can go until they turn 21yo. The bus takes them. The teachers there babysit for free ALL the time to give parents a break. Maybe you have something like that where you live.

10:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

BADDASSCHIC SAYS........

WOOO HOOO LETS MAKE IT TO 20O COMMENTS!!!!!

12:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I agree with 3:44, 3:58 and 6:13 but instead of the Secret they need to pick up the original Secret The Bible.

stuffghettopeoplelike said...
Where ther eis smoke there is fire. I do believe there is some truth to the comments made about Heather. Kenyon is a dumb coon for hooking up with a broad of such low moral character. How is someone going to have a bunch of kids from different fathers and only take care of half of them? As someone stated before some of you black asses need to be sterilized.

8:46 PM

Dude I feel you sometimes but this is eugenics and they would try it out on the poor and come for the "uppity" Blacks next. I don't know what it will take because after I see RoRoLeisha cuss out Tayquan for child support and I am 14, 15, 16 yrs old I'd pick up college applications and I did.!!

1:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@4:20. Actually you said "she don't deserve a good man"? in the very first line of your 12:19 post. But let's not even get hung up on words: nice men don't fuck other folks wives.

2:07 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

yeah, anyone whose a "partner in crime" to someone who spews bullshit is a bullshit person themselves. kenyon aint right either.

snitch should do more 'dead beat baby mama' posts to continue to embarrass the hell out of some of her subscribers on this website.

9:03 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^and we know some of these subscribers on this website are 'dead beat baby mama's'-and myspace too.

9:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I will tell my story. In advance, it may be long so you can by pass it if you like to. When I was 12 years old, I was in the 7th grade, an A student. My mother had a new b/f.

One night he came into my room and touched me. I was scared and and felt disrespected. I did not know what to do. I told my mother asap what he did to me. She asked him and he said that he did no such thing and the case was closed.

My mother thought that I made up the story. I felt helpless! He minipulated my mother and told her that he should train me so I would not want to have sex. What? I was a virgin and I was thinking about sex, just going to school, JJ Fad, LL Kool J and playing double dutch outside.

One cold night he raped me with a dildo. I bled so badly. My mother was there. He unpluged the phone so I could not call for help. He told me that if I told anyone, he would kill me. I missed school for days.

I yelled for help but where I lived then, people may see or hear something but they act as if they did not see or hear something if you know what I mean.

He continued to rape me and he told my mother that if he had sex with me, it would be apart of the training. He raped me and I tried to fight and I cried for my mother to help me. I cried myself to sleep. My mother allowed all of this to happen. I tried my best to fight back. I took a chair and an iron and attacked him. He picked me up by my throat and I could not breath. He put me down, kicked me and punched me. I was not okay. All that I remember the next thing is me being on the bed as well as my mother. He had her legs open and my legs open. Itried to bite him and he punched me in the face.

I came out of it and he was having sex with my mother and trying to use his fingers on me. I got up and tried to get away. He chased me but I ran so fast. I ran down the street crying for help. No one would stop. People sped up if anything. Someone finnaly stopped and they took me to the hospital. The hospital gave be a warm blanket. Social services were called and the police. They did a rape kit. I told my family and they did not beleive me. They thought that I made up the whole story. He went to jail that night. When he got out, my mother and the monster told the court that I was having sex with all these guys and that some guy did that to me.

My family beleived that story. I felt so alone and betrayed. I was taken from my home and when I was able to go back, my mother told me that he was still living there and to keep it a secret. Social services told my mother that I could not be around him.

She said that he was not going nowhere. I was 15 by then when I was able to go home. I did not even go upstairs. I left and never returned. When I was 18 years old, my mother and the monster addmitted to what happened to me. My family could not beleive it, I was telling the truth. I tried my best to tell you what happened to me when I was 12. I must say that my mother chose a man before me and allowed him to rape me. It is a shame becasue there are so many mother's like that. It is sick! A mother should protect her child.

11:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

11:04 AM

That's an awfully sad story and you are not alone! It was not your fault, your mother chose not to protect you. You told on him and she didn't deliver-you did nothing wrong, you tried and did all you could-as a child. Its understandable if you hate her to this day. I have zero tolerance for dead beat mothers. I think its even worse when its the mother. But all I can say is, for anyone whose been a victim of a crap ass parent, do not repeat history and be conscious of your actions around your child. Children remember that stuff even as adults. A mother or a fathers actions in a negative way is DAMAGING. Those who do not recognize that are killing themselves (and hurting their children and repeating history) and do not even know it. Some people are not conscious and do not wake up and consider that their doing the same thing their crap ass parent did. AND DO YOU THINK FOR A MOMENT THAT I CARE IF A GAY PARENT WANTS TO ADOPT? HELL NO. Many of them are damn good parents and are so loving in terms of protecting their child and giving them what they need for healthy life. A lot of these straight parents are fucking these kids up.

11:04 AM

If your mother and her boyfriends intention was to shatter you and your life, IT DID NOT WORK. You are still standing! You knew what was right and what was wrong, and that's what's important. You have control over your life now-as an adult. Try to create more positive memories in your life, and the negative/bad memories will fade. Just keep yourself around positive people, and keep on respecting yourself and standing up for what's right!!

11:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

--what i mean to say is..straight parents can be just as good parents as non-straight parents. parenting style means a lot. there is NO GUARANTEE that a child will turn out gay if adopted by a gay parent. many people have been raised by same gender parents and are not homosexual. and many of these children do not witness any affection or sex between same gender parents. its how you do it.

11:31 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^Damn man, that iz beyond fukked up!!! I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. I cannot imagine, and the sad thing is stuff like this happens all the time, it's so sad. That's why i don't understand when PPL in general can be involved with a new person, and they have they kids around them like it ain't nothing. PPL too crazy, i read so many stories about children being abused by their mothers/fathers bf/gf...by sons father tried me like that we had been broken up for about 4 months n he already had a g/f and they moved in together and he wanted him to spend the night, mind u i had never even heard of her prior to this...he was mad, but i don't care because I can't allow my son to just be around anyone yano, this was and is still brand new and If something happens to him, it will be all she wrote! real talk, I wish you the best in everything you do because that is something nobody should have to go through!

**kaliente**

11:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you for your support 11:26 and 11:40. I was so scared to tell my story out here. I will be very honest. I hated black men growing up. I gave a black man a chance when I was in college. When I was in the 8th grade, I joined a program called recap, if you get straight A's and B's for the first two marking periods, you skip a grade. I went to a junior college and graduated. I continued my education and recieved a Masters. I tried to be a positive, spititual woman.

The hardest part is knowing that this happened to me and my family did not have my back.

I had an argument with my uncle last month and he said, "Ah-ha, that is why you got raped when you were 12!" I am will be alright. Every time I try to talk to my mother about this, she says that, "It was the past." My therapist tells me that she is surprised that I am not a drug addict. Thank you for allowing me to tell my story. If you go through any bad situation, stay strong and do not let the evilness take contrl of your mind, body and soul.

1:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

^^^See you have a good head on your shoulders you turned a negative into a positive, that alone is worth praise! It is sad that ur family did not have your back, I can just imagine how hurtful that was. Your uncle was very ignorant for making that comment but it just shows his lack of maturity and sympathy, But it WILL be okay continue to do u and God will keep the blessings flowing! Don't let anyone steal your shine, You take care of YOURSELF:)

**kaliente**

1:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

@1:21 pm

You are such a courageous young woman and I applaud you for fighting back and regaining your life. Sadly stories like this are all you here in these perilous times. A lot of mothers today have no natural affection which is what a mother/parent must have with their child.

I know you love your mother(as you should) but how can you respect her as a mother and not harbor any animosity towards her?

1:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

P.S. Your welcome:)

**kaliente**

1:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

anonymous@8:53 AM said:

"That's why I keeps to myself and keep people out my business because if you don't, shit like this will EVENTUALLY happen. You can be in your own house, in your own bedroom, and asleep in your own bed, under your own covers and some ignorant mofo will find a way to hate on that and try to act a monkey with you, and that's usually because they aint got shit, aint never had shit, and can't get shit of their own to be satisfied with."

...That's true, but then again, you're talking about this on a Blogger's site, and they all do the exact same thing, with emphasis on the 'Hate.'

1:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

LadeeLeo says:

Oh my goodness, that story made me cry. I am so sorry you had to experience that. You are a strong woman and i'm proud of you. God does not like ugly, your mothers day will come.

7:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This type of woman makes ALL woman look bad,not just black woman,but woman in general!!!
This WHORE ought to be slapped, kicked,punched,spitted on,shitted on and pissed on.How dare you open your stank ass pussy, and make children,and just walk away from them,for money!This type of woman disgusts me, and I'm glad her daughters DON'T know her, hell what type of ROLE MODEL is that? They're probably better off without her...And for Kenyon to even be with a woman like this and to know her background, speaks poorly of his character!
This shit has pissed me off terribly,I hope her skank ass had read every bit of it...SLUUUUUUT

9:37 PM  
Anonymous Wild Safari said...

That story was very sad. I'm surprised he didn't stay in jail for the rape. It is unfortunate how often sexual molestation is swept under the rug by families and the criminal "justice" system. Stay strong.

9:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It sure is 9:38PM, it sure is!

10:14 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I see a pattern here:
1st baby daddy = 1 child
2nd baby daddy = 2 children
3rd baby daddy = 3 children

Lord help us if she hooks up again.

2:46 AM  
Blogger CHIC NOIR said...

@11:04- You are a strong woman to make it through what you have lived through.



Cosign with wild safari on the post below


Safari said...
She may have a pleasant personality and be reasonably good looking. Maybe she is even a great lover (6 kids?), but how can any man or anyone for that matter have any respect for a woman who would abandon her husband and children to chase after some other man? Her husband sounds like a good provider who really loved her. Not many guys would take in someone else's babymama off the streets, help her through school, and take care of her child then wife her and raise that child as his own. He sounds like a real stand up guy. She left the good guy to chase after some baller from the club and has absolutely nothing to do with her first three kids! That is completely inexcusable. It also reminds me of Maneka, but that's another story.

10:50 PM

3:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

shit like this happens on an everyday basis. men and women being hoes and leaving their kids has sadly become a habit in our community, more like an epidemic. and just because her story connects her to money doesn't mean shit. if this is true she just a stupid, skanked out, money chasing hoe. if it's not true then she just got some haters. but i see shit like this everyday, women trying to get pregnant so they can get taken care of. in some of those cases the females are so damn dumb that they judge the man's financial status on his ride, his clothes, and how his rides hooked up. but in many of those same cases the man maybe looking like he has a good stable financial standing because he has nice clothes and a nice car but his ass live at home with his parents living from paycheck to paycheck. and if he miss 1 check he's fucked up because his car maybe possessed. kinda off but hell she now part of an epidemic.

4:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

2:46 I did not even notice that. Wow, you are funny!

4:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Regarding all caps. If you have MS Word on your PC you hilite the desired text and hit Shift+F3 at the same time to un-cap it. Do it again and it will uncap all but the first word following a period.

5:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

4:43am What about the dude that has the cars, house, 401k, dental etc but beating the living daylights out of you but the person wasnt looking for charcter, just money.
Or the chick that looks fine, house, cars, looking to get a vacation home but she is CRAZY as hell, but she got the body while cussing your moms out.
People have to look deeper.

11:27 PM  
Blogger ZACK said...

No offense, but how did we change subjects. I thought this post was about something else.

I do feel sorry for the young lady who was abused though.

8:10 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

God Bless all of the decent sistah's who have their ONE child with their husband. Great job, benefits, even better life insurance policy and he's one more heart attack away from.... ; -)

And I do what I do!!!!

11:21 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't really know this young lady but if the story is true I hope that one day she thinks about her girls and tries to have a relationship with them. And it sounds like the young man that she left them with has a strong family background that would help him take care and raise wonderful, respectable young ladies. Thank God for that at least! Karma is something else if this is true!!!!!!

12:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is One dumb-ass BroaD I tell ya. That niGga Kenyon bOi it reaLly says alot about him as well. To Know that sHe has Kids, & to juSt leave theM, pretend as if they do not exist is Beyond me.

I Could neva live with myself on some Real ShYt.. GoD don't like Ugly, therefore she goIn to Hell..

Hopefully her gurlz turn out to be a Better woman than their sOrri ass Mama.. God Bless the Chillens...

HarLemChiC @ll Day

6:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This B^&*(^& is obviously a F'ed up hater. Definitely not a friend. I know Heather personally too bitch, she's my cousin and I'd appreciate it if you'd keep her ex-husband and my precious girls about your muthafucken mouth!!! It's none of your business what Heather's doing with her life and the girls are well taken care of so don't trip. What in your right mind would make you think it was alright to put her family's name out there like that and one us not get back to you and speak on it? You think that shyt is cute? Just go on back to your bullsh&%^&* life hoe and when it comes to "grown-up" issues keep your fucken mouth shut!

6:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

im Jason Phillips, Heathers brother. I havent seen my sis in VERY LONG TIME. but as long as she is still living and the kids are still str8 i guess thats all i can ask for. im not the best person in the world, i have ALOT of dirt on me. but who wrote this? are you trying to get her spot? does she owe u money? u said u grew up with her in Inglewood. so im trying to figure who this person is. i have an idea but not to sure. again i am Jason Phillips my government name so u can get at me. please do not hide behind the computer screen.why dont you catch a flight to where heather is and handle your differences? are you trying to save all the women in Denver? or what do you have to gain. its phucked up how Heather decided to live her life but its just that! im sure she was VERY SHADY when she bounced from the hood. but im pretty sure u got shyt to do in u'r life as well. i think i know who u r. if so holla at me. all the homies know where im at since i got back in town im not hard to reach. now if this is the person i think it is, cmon we been down for a looong time. u and heather been down for a looong time.now your brother owes me some $$$ do i go on a blog and air him, his fam or his crew out? or so i just go find him and handle it myself. i hear he has a spot in Santa Monica i should run up on him and see whats! what dont u think? why would u put her kids or her ex's info on the computer? the city they live in, etc...who really gives a phuck.

7:19 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Jason Phillips, I know thats right. I grew up in the Wood as well. I like how you put it down on all the low life bitches with no jobs. They seem to have a lot of time to worry about other women's problems. So what if Heather is out in her own world. These bitches are hating because they want to be in her shoes. If you like I can go with you to the spot and see if the brother of the bitch above will kick up your funds. When we fuck him up I will type the story on this blog for ya. Holla if you want to do bus. or just have lunch. C U SOON!!!!!

5:05 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

????? WHO IS THIS?

10:33 AM  

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